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Old 07-13-2009, 06:01 PM
 
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I am a relationship...sometimes things are fine, other times i feel like she doesnt treat me right, has an attitude, and is sometimes just not thankful for all i do for her...

but then...


i will start asking myself well what if i am wrong in what i feel on how she treats me? what if it is me who is blowing out of proportion? Does anyone else do this? or does anyone else have any advice?
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Old 07-13-2009, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Fiji
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Yeah, I wouldn't sweat it right now. Don't let her manipulate you. Just do what you do, be in control of you and don't act desperate to please her. Remember, the one who cares the least has the power in the relationship.

That's not to say that you should be bad or anything. Just treat her like you'd want to be treated and, over time, see how things progress. Be confident and be at peace
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Old 07-13-2009, 06:37 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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Women just don't get it sometimes.

Men just want to make us happy. A little gratitude goes a long way. If a man buys me dinner, I will be sure to tell him what a great meal it is and how much I enjoyed myself. I'll say, "This wine is so good!" Or, "What great ambiance this place has. I love it here!"

And then you get to see him smile. It really brings out the best in a man.
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