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One thing I've noticed (and maybe other guys have noticed this too) is that the really hot, beautiful women often end up being the worst in bed. Not always, but often. It's ironic because when a guy sees a woman like that, he almost immediately imagines what it would be like to sleep with her. How often have you guys looked at a woman and thought, "that girl's got a body made for sex." I know I've thought that, but too often, the sex was a letdown. The woman just didn't seem to know what she was doing. I wonder if the really hot women are so used to being with guys that worship them that they never really learned how to please their partner. Some women who have very self-centered personalities probably bring that with them to the bedroom, expecting the guy to do everything for her. A lot of times, it's the average looking woman with the imperfect body who's been the best lover.
One thing I've noticed (and maybe other guys have noticed this too) is that the really hot, beautiful women often end up being the worst in bed. Not always, but often. It's ironic because when a guy sees a woman like that, he almost immediately imagines what it would be like to sleep with her. How often have you guys looked at a woman and thought, "that girl's got a body made for sex." I know I've thought that, but too often, the sex was a letdown. The woman just didn't seem to know what she was doing. I wonder if the really hot women are so used to being with guys that worship them that they never really learned how to please their partner. Some women who have very self-centered personalities probably bring that with them to the bedroom, expecting the guy to do everything for her. A lot of times, it's the average looking woman with the imperfect body who's been the best lover.
It's the same with men. I mentioned in a thread a while back a really good-looking guy that was a total dead lay. One of my friends had been with him too and said the same thing. Sorry, your good looks do not make up for poor bedroom skills.
It's the same with men. I mentioned in a thread a while back a really good-looking guy that was a total dead lay. One of my friends had been with him too and said the same thing. Sorry, your good looks do not make up for poor bedroom skills.
I think in their minds, good looks are the equivalent of having good bedroom skills. In other words, if you bring the great body, then you've done your part. Now it's up to the other person to show you that they're worthy of your great body. What a huge turnoff to be with a person who has such a high opinion of themselves.
I haven't had many partners but this is a pretty easy one.
1) They want to make you happy. (This is contagious by the way)
2) They know themselves and what they like and communicate it
3) They put forth effort...this could be in setting the mood, performance, preparation...whatever.
4) The person cares for you...and this goes to #1.
5) Physical ability...for example if the guy is carrying an extra 50-60lbs he isn't going to have the stamina, endurance...might have ED issues, makes it REALLY hard for the woman to do much on bottom and can also lessen desire and other psych factors.
6) They *want* you...good old fashioned heat\lust\physical attraction....sometimes people get caught up in the moment and that can lead to all kinds of things.
I haven't had many partners but this is a pretty easy one.....
Reps for you, Mathguy. You're right on the money.
Another example about how looks mean little: the best oral I ever received was from a plain looking woman I dated in college. She was very much overlooked by other guys because she was just average looking and a little pudgy. But she was a very nice gal and had such a willing attitude..she was simply FUN to be with. And some of the hottest sex I ever had was with a country girl MILF who was attractive enough but certainly would never be on any magazine covers.
Bottom line: hot looks are fine and all, but they are WAY overrated.
Be careful here Denny... You know the question was "How do you break a penis" !!!
I assumed it was a general you.
Besides, women have done things to men that are far more cruel.
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