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This story is going to sound silly, but hear me out. So I have this long distance crush and we both clearly like one another. He asked me to send him nudes and I thought "why not" and just had fun with it. He said I was really hot and that he would date me if I was in his area. The next day we are just talking about he randomly talks about some random celeb, "this girl is my dream woman". Wtf? Now I know men find other womenattractuve and yada yada. But why tell ME that? Was he trying to make me feel insecure or something? I just don't understand why you would about your "celeb crush" to your real life crush! So odd.
I don't understand why you would send nude pictures to someone you don't really know. So odd.
We've communicated online for a year? .. We've also sent videos to one another of us talking (with clothes on). We share a similar sense of humor so that's how we bonded
We've communicated online for a year? .. We've also sent videos to one another of us talking (with clothes on). We share a similar sense of humor so that's how we bonded
That is cool, but nude pictures have a tendency to show up when we don't want them to. You do not know how many people this man has shown them to or shared them with. I would be careful if I were you.
Well given his comment of "if he was in your area, he'd date you" makes it sound like the distance means it's not anything serious, he's not dating you, and isn't expecting to date you. He probably just sees you 2 as sending pix and having casual fun sending nudes. Chances are he's not expecting anything serious to come of the interactions, He's probably hooking up with women in his area. But online pals are cool too.
I wouldn't think too much on it. Some people, if not seriously dating someone see casual as grounds for being a bit more lax/ And because of that, it's easy to offend sometimes. And sometimes, it's a subtle way of telling someone not to expect much.
Last edited by HappyRain; 11-08-2015 at 10:07 AM..
That is cool, but nude pictures have a tendency to show up when we don't want them to. You do not know how many people this man has shown them to or shared them with. I would be careful if I were you.
Um, it's fine. There are millions of photos of faceless breasts and bottoms all over the Internet. If my pics were put online or he showed them to someone or something, it would have no effect on me. This is straying from the topic
Nothing random about it. Yes, guys can be totally dense and say stupid things, but they know what they're doing.. He's telling you straight up that his dream woman is not you, so if you're catching feelings, kill that s h - - , like, now.
Nothing random about it. Yes, guys can be totally dense and say stupid things, but they know what they're doing.. He's telling you straight up that his dream woman is not you, so if you're catching feelings, kill that s h - - , like, now.
He told me "my boobs were better" right after which is why I'm assuming it's a mind game and he was just trying to make me insecure in the moment. I should probably cut it over the fact that he has the maturity of a 17 year old? I cannot believe an adult man would stoop to this level.
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