Married woman is wanting to meet up with me? (women, attracted, younger)
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Well if it comes to that she wants to have sex with me, I just have to be careful that her husband doesn't find out. Is she prepared to keep that as a secret from her husband? I mean does he even know that she wants to meet up with me?
Can't believe a 40 yr old man thinks its flattering to have a 60 something woman after them. Story sounds made up.
You're in your 40's not your 20's you should know how to handle these situations, let alone need guidance on how to deal with a married person who you have been getting too close too through you workplace.
What purpose does asking others serve here?
Are you trying to convince yourself this is a great idea?
What do you hope is going to happen by this meeting?
If you're uneasy about the whole situation just do not do meet up.
Last edited by rego00123; 08-22-2015 at 12:56 PM..
Just from reading the OP it sounds like the woman's MO might not have anything to do with sex at all. If they're friendly former coworkers, she may be asking about networking or headhunting or gossip or something else work related. OP is putting the cart miles before the horse.
Last edited by fleetiebelle; 08-22-2015 at 01:15 PM..
I was kinda thinking the same. I'm not thinking sex persay (albeit still a possibility) but I think the whole conversation + flirting + "date-ish" behavior with someone she feels comfortable (and younger) with makes her feel "young". Especially with a Husband that might have medical issues that prevent him from being there for her.
Just from reading the OP it sounds like the woman's MO might not have anything to do with sex at all. If they're friendly former coworkers, she may be asking about networking or headhunting or gossip or something else work related. OP is putting the cart miles before the horse.
So a married female in her sixties asks for networking, headhunting advice by flirting and arranging "dates' with a single guy.
Networking and headhunting are job related. What does flirting and arranging "dates" have to do with this?
There is a woman I used to work with. She is married though and has a lot of kids and grandkids. I am in my mid 40s and she is in her mid 60s. We were good friends when I worked with her at my last job but not talking a lot as after I don't work for the company, we do email each other on and off and she usually replies quick when I send her an email. She suggested that we need to meet up. I told her I am ok for meeting up with her for coffee. She is game for it also. One thing she told me that her husband is having a lot of medical problems. Also when I meet up with her would she get flirty with me just like how she replies quick on her emails and suggested that we meet up? I just don't know if she would get flirty with me at the coffee shop or just meet up to discuss old times and how things are? What is this woman's objective? Please help with your comments
I think the sensible approach would be to say "No, thanks" and walk away- permanently.
People are people... even in their older age they need a little spice in their lives.
No fool like an old fool..... just ask me.
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