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Old 07-08-2013, 07:37 PM
 
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During college I saw many examples of an attractive, smart, personable woman dating a cokehead or immature douchebag. Very strange. You'd see some hot girl from a rich family, she's a super motivated student who just got into a good med school, very sweet too, and she's dating some loser. I don't understand what they talk about when they're hanging out together.

Anyone else observed this?
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Old 07-08-2013, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That's college. They will change or be sorry.
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Old 07-08-2013, 07:43 PM
 
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During college I saw many examples of an attractive, smart, personable woman dating a cokehead or immature douchebag. Very strange. You'd see some hot girl from a rich family, she's a super motivated student who just got into a good med school, very sweet too, and she's dating some loser. I don't understand what they talk about when they're hanging out together.
Because even though she appears to have it all together, inside she doesn't. She wouldn't be dating a drug addict or an immature idiot if she had solid self-worth. It's all about how she feels about herself inwardly, regardless of external appearances.
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Old 07-08-2013, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Lemon Heights, Orange County, CA
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When I was in college we called it ghetto surfing.
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Old 07-08-2013, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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During college I saw many examples of an attractive, smart, personable woman dating a cokehead or immature douchebag. Very strange. You'd see some hot girl from a rich family, she's a super motivated student who just got into a good med school, very sweet too, and she's dating some loser. I don't understand what they talk about when they're hanging out together.

Anyone else observed this?
In college, we all dated wrong people. I wouldn't call them losers though, I am sure many guys I've dated in the past have viewed me as the wrong person.

All my past dates, boyfriends have taught me something at the time, without them, I wouldn't be the person I am today.
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Old 07-08-2013, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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During college I saw many examples of an attractive, smart, personable woman dating a cokehead or immature douchebag. Very strange. You'd see some hot girl from a rich family, she's a super motivated student who just got into a good med school, very sweet too, and she's dating some loser. I don't understand what they talk about when they're hanging out together.

Anyone else observed this?

No.
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Old 07-08-2013, 08:26 PM
 
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I've seen it a few times. I think it has more to do with those women rebelling against there parents, or they're actually also drug addicts themselves.
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Old 07-08-2013, 08:36 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I've observed it, and usually the gal is bumping that yayo too.
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Old 07-08-2013, 08:38 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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dude, you dont know whats going on, like why aren't these "elite women" interested, dating, and hooking up with you?

some guys will never understand women cuz they cant comprehend women acting on anything other than logic. if you dont know what im talking about, im talking about you.
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Old 07-08-2013, 08:39 PM
 
Location: The Emerald City
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High School mentality tends to linger longer for some people....
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