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The majority of people date primarily within there own race. If you are truly an attractive white women you will probably attract a lot of white men. Ive seen a a few post picking Manhattan as an option however as stated earlier it is super competitive and crazy expensive to boot. Ultimately anywhere in the United States would work for you.
I've never heard of anybody having a problem like this in any US city. Of course, I've never heard of this problem before at all.
The only major cities in the US that have an Asian population that rival Vancouver are probably San Francisco and Honolulu. As you mention, you did not have any kind of problem like this in L.A.
Queens County in NYC is primarily Asian. There is a huge population of Asian people there.
First off, I know people are going to be very enraged about me even asking this question. But the truth is, I am most attracted to men who share my European looks and cultural roots. I can't help myself. (On a side note, if I was saying I was an Asian guy looking for an Asian girl, I'm certain far less people would find that offensive or bothersome!)
But I live in Vancouver, and literally every white guy, well maybe 90% of them, have or are seeking an Asian girlfriend. Just today, driving downtown I was astounded at just how apparent this sociological phenomenon has become.
I'm from Los Angeles, and before moving here last year I was asked out by fairly attractive men left and right. Since moving here, I've only been asked out a few times--by drunk men at a casino. Once I even joined up a dating site, and as a fit 21 year old in university, I was astounded at how few messages I received to the ratio of those who viewed my profile. The ones who did make contact were mostly unattractive or loser-ish.
I don't hate Asians, but it is no doubt bothersome to have a thing for white guys in a city where the vast majority of them are only interested in them.
Even if I am a university graduate, even if I do take excellent care of my health and skin, even if I am graceful & ladylike, they'll still prefer an Asian woman.
I am thinking of moving to Seattle (not for this reason)--I heard this phenomenon is primarily a west coast thing, which makes sense because that's where most of the Asians in North America are. I imagine dating will be a drag there too for this reason, and with my preference for white guys.
So, if I want to expand my chances of finding an attractive, successful European male counterpart, what cities in North America are better for that?
*Cities that are NOT in the south, however. And those whose populace are well-educated and liberal, with low crime and a lively art scene.
I am having a very difficult time wrapping my head around the idea that every single caucasian man in Vancouver is seeking an Asian woman. Frankly, it sounds more like a resentful exaggeration than a factual report about what is going on.
I suspect the real reason my be that your standards are a bit high. You say the men who approach you are "unattractive and loserish." Really? All of them? You seem to think you are entitled to a man who is "attractive and successful." How attractive? How successful?
No, you don't have to lower your standards. But if you set them sky-high, don't complain when you end up alone.
I am thinking of moving to Seattle (not for this reason)--I heard this phenomenon is primarily a west coast thing, which makes sense because that's where most of the Asians in North America are. I imagine dating will be a drag there too for this reason, and with my preference for white guys.
If you can't get a white guy in the 5th whitest city in America, then you have bigger problems than Asian women.
I am thinking of moving to Seattle (not for this reason)--I heard this phenomenon is primarily a west coast thing, which makes sense because that's where most of the Asians in North America are. I imagine dating will be a drag there too for this reason, and with my preference for white guys.
I don't believe you heard any such thing. Because it's not a West Coast thing at all. Dating in Seattle is a drag because men tend not to approach women at all. It's not a very friendly place. You should move back to CA.
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