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I used to watch porn when I was younger and traveled away from my gf for several days at a time. Now that I don't travel we just get busy whenever one of us is horny. Sometimes several times a day while other times just a few times a week. Don't feel the urge to watch porn anymore.
I did in my former relationship but thats mostly my fault for continuing the relationship when I wasn't attracted to her to begin with and it never got better even after 5 years and it finally ended for many other reasons.
Needless to say, if I can't attract a woman good looking enough to keep me away from double clicking, its better I remain single in the meantime. Men are genetically visual creatures and we need the stimulation from one source or another. A lot of woman simply can't and or refuse to understand and accept this simple fact about men. Men are visually stimulated creatures and NEED to release our sex drive on a constant basis, for most normal heterolsexual men. If a woman can't provide this in real life, we will find another outlet
We really are not that complicated to figure out but woman insist on making everything incredible more complex and stressful as they themselves are incredibly complex and somewhat unstable creatures from a biological standpoint so in a way, woman just tend to make things worse by wanting "More reasoning and explanation" for every damn thing then just accepting the way crap is, men especially.
If you don't use it or do not believe in using internet pornography while in a loving and committed relationship, what's your reason for not using it?
Sex - done right - involves a certain amount of time effort and input. Sometimes people just want the sexual release without any of that investment and so mastrubation, porn and other things come into play. It does not _have_ to reflect badly in any way on the relationship or ones partner in it.
In fact sex is one of those "the more you get the more you want" things and even having the most sexually active and fulfilling relationship therefore can in some cases lead people to be MORE likely to seek release through porn at other times.
In my relationship we have dabbled in porn a bit. Together AND apart. We are even currently writing a script for a porn we jokingly plan to film with ourselves and others in it some day. It is a complex medieval setting affair with lots of political intruige and an actual story line (and side story lines that are parallel and sometimes tangential to the main plot). And lots of sex mixed in too.
No idea if we will ever actually film it. Sometimes we say we will.
I have been happily married for 10 years and I have a wonderful girlfriend (my wife and I are in an open marriage, so don't panic; I'm not cheating). Yes, I do look at porn sometimes. I don't sit and watch porn movies because that is just boring, but I do like to see naked pics and short porn clips. Why? Two reasons: First, my wife and I rarely have sex anymore (we still love each other deeply and are best friends, but we are both busy with extracurricular activities), and sometimes it can be a couple of weeks or more between girlfriend visits (she is also in an open marriage) so porn can be a good "filler". Alternatively, when I expect to be having sex within the next day or so, sometime porn can serve the purpose of building my sexual tension so that when I do see my girlfriend, I'm "primed" for a whole night or weekend of festivities. Sorry if TMI, but hey, you asked.
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