Are women overtaking men in the shallowness department? (dating, married, young)

[JBT1980]

Men usually get blamed for being the more superficial ones who are slaves to their hormones and only care about looks but recently it seems men are much more lenient lately and women on the other hand have turned into men where looks are the most important thing

I see tons of couples nowadays where the man is clearly better looking..and online dating forget about it..its basically tons of very plain women going after the hottest guys..

Add in the whole height thing where a lot of women would choose their shoe over a potentially great guy and if a guy still isnt taller then them in her huge heels hes dismissed..

It seems as if shallowness and vanity in women has reach new heights these days no pun intended

[RazorRob305]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

I see tons of couples nowadays where the man is clearly better looking

I don't know man, I have seen some ugly azz dudes with some average to above average looking women.

[Virijat]

It has always been that way, how is that changing?

[BradPiff]

Men are more shallow

[Shaquille]

Men and Women are both equally shallow lol.

[capitol]

Men are more shallow in terms of looks

Women are more shallow in terms of height, money, and certain personality traits.

[tazzled]

Originally Posted by capitol

Men are more shallow in terms of looks

Women are more shallow in terms of height, money, and certain personality traits.

How does judging someone based on personality traits make one shallow?

[ja1myn]

Oh my Lord, here we go again.

[Ruth4Truth]

OP, it sounds like you're describing online dating. Online dating creates a kind of "catalogue effect", where people can shop for the attributes they want. Both sexes do it in that environment. IRL, the game is much more varied, and nothing much has really changed. There have always been men and women who prioritize looks, and there have always been men and women who prioritize personality.

[MittenDweller82]

IMOP women are certainly more likely to get men to follow them and play games to boost their egos. How many men do you know that play hard to get? Thankfully I am happily married but I do feel that mainstream media is programming young girls to be emotionless, snobby, self seeking, and vain. There are down to earth women that are educated, caring and respectful but they are becoming increasingly rare.