Why don't girls talk to me?.. Am I ugly? (woman, love, older)
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Are you Aspergers by any chance? You seem to have a very black/white way of looking at things, as if there was some scientific formula involved in human interaction.
If you are quiet, reserved, and somewhat of an introvert you are going to have a tougher time meeting women. Waiting on them to talk to you means you're going to miss out more often than not. Don't be afraid to initiate small talk, what have you got to lose? Do you go to school? That's a good way to meet people. Get involved in group activities that interest you, expand your social circle and you may be able to meet someone through a mutual friend.
You aren't ugly at all. Though, I'm not sure the "Fonzie" look with popped leather collar is the way to go. Just a suggestion.
Are you Aspergers by any chance? You seem to have a very black/white way of looking at things, as if there was some scientific formula involved in human interaction.
Not that I know of..
But you can say that I'm a hard working & under achieving individual..
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It's hard bro...some make it sound so easy, but it does take a leap of faith. I guess it just takes awhile to become comfortable with taking things to the next level.
Am I ugly or am I too good looking and seem kind of un-approachable..
I have no problems talking to the opposite-sex for the most part, but beyond that nothing happens, like am I supposed to do or say something?
And I always have to initiate the conversation, so you could understand how hard it is for me to have a conversation with a person that I'm interested in..
And at times, girls look at me, then I look back and they look away.. They never smile or anything, so obviously a dead end there..
I just think that it's stupid to talk to some random person you just saw walking past you etc, I'd feel very stupid doing that, so there's always this psychological problem I have that I'm alwalys doing something wrong and I just think too much..
Btw I'm 20yrs old and never had any girlfriends, relations etc etc
Photo of me; though I look darker then usual for some reason..
Nothing wrong there... do you jog or play hand ball? racquet ball?
Very serious vibe which may throw girls off as to what you're looking for...
A way do something stressfree and experience endorphins... can you afford to put an ad in for jogging partners? Or take a tai chi class... (its slower and I'm thinking you need something faster)
I would still try the jogging 1st and look for jogging partners. That way everyone is feeling pretty good afterwards and it's easier to say a couple words (sentences) everyday.
It's hard bro...some make it sound so easy, but it does take a leap of faith. I guess it just takes awhile to become comfortable with taking things to the next level.
I'm guessing that you haven't taken the leap..?
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