Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
 
Old 06-07-2012, 06:54 PM
 
Location: Reading, PA
6 posts, read 55,576 times
Reputation: 13

Advertisements

I see this girl all the time at her work. I would catch her staring at me and other times she would play if off like she isn't but she was.

She has said hi to me or smiled a few times and so have I and it was friendly but kind of flirty. So we cross paths while I am shopping at her work and she was caught off guard. As soon as she sees me she gets embarrassed! I give her a little smile "not creepy" to say hi. She smiles with this embarrassed smile but wont make eye contact and keeps walking.

After that whole episode she seems afraid or nervous? I don't want her to think I'm chasing after her or I'm some wierdo so I give her her space and don't really look at her now. I catch her still looking but only when far away. If we are close she just keeps her head down and does not smile anymore.

What's all that about?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 06-07-2012, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
42,763 posts, read 52,886,422 times
Reputation: 25362
Girls are retarded. Lol I dunno she may be shy. How old are you guys?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 06-07-2012, 07:03 PM
 
Location: Reading, PA
6 posts, read 55,576 times
Reputation: 13
She's early 20's, I'm almost 30 but look younger.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 06-07-2012, 07:07 PM
 
5,472 posts, read 7,608,863 times
Reputation: 5793
She's into you, dude. If you like her, make your move.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 06-07-2012, 07:08 PM
 
1,384 posts, read 2,347,704 times
Reputation: 781
Eh, it could mean anything. She might be interested but shy/nervous or maybe she's telling you she's not interested. I've learned that I can't read signs worth a damn, so it's better to just ask, haha.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 06-07-2012, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Pa
42,763 posts, read 52,886,422 times
Reputation: 25362
Quote:
Originally Posted by spare key View Post
She's early 20's, I'm almost 30 but look younger.
Ah I got ya! When I was 21 I dated a 29 yr old. She prob wants you, but fears you a little. Talk to her. A simple "Hey you look pretty today." Then walk away like you have a phone call or appear to be busy. Ladies like the chase also.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 06-07-2012, 08:34 PM
 
1,406 posts, read 2,723,979 times
Reputation: 1426
It does sound like she was embarrassed because she likes you and you caught her off guard.
Does this girl have a boyfriend?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 06-07-2012, 10:25 PM
 
2,886 posts, read 5,827,883 times
Reputation: 1885
I say she is definitely into you but is shy and gets nervous by your presence. In my opinion if she wasn't attracted to you she would never have made eye contact and smiled on different occasions. I would approach her and tell her what someone else already said that she looks pretty and/or try to make conversation. She might be dry at first but that doesn't necessarily mean that she is not interested, it could be that she is embarrassed, nervous and shy so don't get surprised if things don't go as planned.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 06-08-2012, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
10,379 posts, read 10,924,893 times
Reputation: 18713
Some women just flirt for entertainment, get attention for themselves. That is they aren't really interested in a guy, but its a boost to their ego that she can flirt, you approach, but she still shuts you down. Its like her saying, I'm still desireable. I heard a group of women who visited Italy describe it like this. "When they visited in their 30's, they were upset and mad at the men when they would come by and pinch their butt. When they visited in their 50's they were mad because the men DIDN'T pinch their butts."
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top