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You are a nice person for being so considerate and treating the girl with respect. Could the lack of physical intimacy be related to lack of chemistry? Or it could be that she is inexperienced and doesn't want you to find out?
If both of the above aren't the case, then I suggest you turn on the charm and seduce her a little (after 2 months, it's time ). Take her to a dimly lit restaurant with a romantic atmosphere and sit in a corner booth, feed her small bites of salad, and softly kiss her earlobes and whisper things like "I have been missing you" at the right time. You can go as far as placing your hand on her leg, before going for a full make out session. Go at a pace that makes her comfortable. At the end of the dinner, suggest that she comes back to your place.
P.S. Not sure about your girl, I just wrote down what I know would work on me. Good luck.
You are a nice person for being so considerate and treating the girl with respect. Could the lack of physical intimacy be related to lack of chemistry? Or it could be that she is inexperienced and doesn't want you to find out?
If both of the above aren't the case, then I suggest you turn on the charm and seduce her a little (after 2 months, it's time ). Take her to a dimly lit restaurant with a romantic atmosphere and sit in a corner booth, feed her small bites of salad, and softly kiss her earlobes and whisper things like "I have been missing you" at the right time. You can go as far as placing your hand on her leg, before going for a full make out session. Go at a pace that makes her comfortable. At the end of the dinner, suggest that she comes back to your place.
P.S. Not sure about your girl, I just wrote down what I know would work on me. Good luck.
We havent talked about being exclusive. Like I said we havent really even kissed that much.We have basically just been hanging out going on dates she said Im the type of guy she wants to date thats why I was kinda confused. I havent even thought about sex before marriage thing good idea I might ask her about that. Thanks
hm... If she said you're the kind of guy she wants to date (and sounded like she meant it), then it wouldn't hurt to be patient a little longer. Some women just need time. Has she said anything about having a bad experience in the past that would lead her to be cautious? Do you guys have common interests and somewhat similar plans for the future, life-goals-wise? Are things clicking in those ways? Would you like to be exclusive with her? Maybe it's time for that conversation to happen, so you can gauge where you stand from how that convo goes.
Jeez, some of you are acting like she strung him out for years. It was only 2 months. Not really a long time in the big scheme of things. I might have an inkling for whether there's "something" there with a guy sooner than that, but I've certainly seen it take a while to develop. In fact, I would appreciate a guy giving it a couple of months with me, not be pissed off that he dragged it out. If there's a chance, give it a little time.
My guess is there is no chemistry on her part. By now you all should be at least close to having sex.
It appears she could be having mental issues as well. I know I would not want to deal with that.
I'd cut my losses and drop her, but maybe after a serious, direct, and honest conversation with her on this issue.
You guys are beasting on this girl. Go ask a teenager wat beasting is.
She pulls back after you kiss a little? So she does kiss you , just not enough? you should be making the little kisses so special and wrap your arms around her and then let her pull away! You should make no issue of her not putting out . She barely knows you . Not every girl wants to have sex with strangers. Right now you guys are friends becase you cant usually be in a relationship after 2 months i dont think.
I feel your pain tho , trust me. I have experienced similar to what youre talking about. Waiting is fine its just not common. Get to know her, when you do that you will figure out the way to her heart . If you want a faster girl,, go get one! I think that the wait is probably worth it. you can always find a girl who just wants to screw.
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). Take her to a dimly lit restaurant with a romantic atmosphere and sit in a corner booth, feed her small bites of salad, and softly kiss her earlobes and whisper things like "I have been missing you" at the right time. 
