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I recently went thru something similiar, but instead of having a boyfriend she left and I know Ill never see her again. She was all I thought about and still do occasionally , everywhere in my dreams, thoughts , every breath. Over time it dulled - very painful experience. I know not exactly like your situation , pain, suffering, and longing is part of life I reckon.
Next time she approaches you on the other side of the office corridor, take a left turn to the men's room, masturbate, that will normalize the brains and then you can get out and tell her the weather is nice
Otherwise, have some basic concern for the brother who is in a relationship with her. Basic brotherhood code, thou shalt not poach thy brother's woman.
Ok - maybe not the part about the mens room..lol but I do see your point.. A big part of the attraction is sexual... and yes.. i do abide by the brotherhood code .. thats why i say I cant get her. she is taken..
Think of it this way. You have the hottest wife in the world with a hour glass figure and DD boobs, long hair and extremely easy on the eyes. Like you have a heart attack over and over.
Now what if another guy tries to seduce her and take her away from you or even get her into his bed? Won't you feel like beheading him - hang, draw and quarter - Fat Henry VIII style
Next time she approaches you on the other side of the office corridor, take a left turn to the men's room, masturbate, that will normalize the brains and then you can get out and tell her the weather is nice
Otherwise, have some basic concern for the brother who is in a relationship with her. Basic brotherhood code, thou shalt not poach thy brother's woman.
+Rep for honesty that makes sense!
Whatever works right? If more men would do that before speaking to a woman they find attractive it would make the world a better place!
Think of it this way. You have the hottest wife in the world with a hour glass figure and DD boobs, long hair and extremely easy on the eyes. Like you have a heart attack over and over.
Now what if another guy tries to seduce her and take her away from you or even get her into his bed? Won't you feel like beheading him - hang, draw and quarter - Fat Henry VIII style
He may feel like it but he won't unless he wants to go to jail.
Also I take it that this lady you want isn't married to said other man?
If so then nothing is set in stone and you could be saving her from wasting her time with a man that isn't right for her if you really love her.
If that is the case go and get her.
If not then honor the code and mind your own business. I think this is a pretty clear cut case of either needing to respect boundaries or establishing yourself as the more dominant man over women you feel are attractive and in your league.
Yeah - I hear you. The issue isnt me trying to steal her. That was never my intention. I didn't try anything which could be taken that way. I always knew the boundaries. I just fell in love in my own mind.. this issue is my heartbreak...
If your issue is heartbreak remember that this is one sided heartbreak which is not logical.
Go out and spend some time on yourself and don't dwell on something that never was to begin with.
I hate to be blunt but I think it's best to just get over it. There are plenty of women.
Agreed..
Also, as a very last resort, visit a strip club!
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