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My sisters have pretty much put me into a spot where I was forced to take a girl out to dinner. I'm in the restroom now. She is talking about the future and such even though I was very clear about where I am. She seems nice enough and I don't want to hurt her feelings. I need help NOW!
My sisters have pretty much put me into a spot where I was forced to take a girl out to dinner. I'm in the restroom now. She is talking about the future and such even though I was very clear about where I am. She seems nice enough and I don't want to hurt her feelings. I need help NOW!
Just tell her it's nice she has a plan and goals in mind - and leave it at that and tell her you aren't sure what you want to do in the future.
on the first date and she's already discussing the future?
Well that's not very healthy.
I'd let her off easy if you're not down with discussing your future with her. If she's coming off as a nice woman, I'd tell her the truth and let her make her own decision. If she still wants to stay on the date or progress future dating, lay down some rules. At this point she seems kind of desperate.
on the first date and she's already discussing the future?
Well that's not very healthy.
I'd let her off easy if you're not down with discussing your future with her. If she's coming off as a nice woman, I'd tell her the truth and let her make her own decision. If she still wants to stay on the date or progress future dating, lay down some rules. At this point she seems kind of desperate.
It could be just conversational like the old question, "where do you see yourself in 5 years." Talking about her future goals and ideaa aren't necessarily bad things and weeds out people who have no interest in children and such or that maybe she'd like to be self employed one day or move somewhere. But if she' including HIM in her future plans - then look out! He could tell her he's moving out of state real soon.
It could be just conversational like the old question, "where do you see yourself in 5 years." Talking about her future goals and idea aren't necessarily bad things and weeds out people who have no interest in children and such. But if she' including HIM in her future plans - then look out!
Well that's what I'm talking about.
"discussing the future" was a pretty broad statement. I just assumed the worst since that's what I was always told. Plan for the worst, hope for the best.
No, I don't jump out the window. She had to leave because she had some kind of undisclosed emergency with one of her kids. He is a high school aged teen but we never made it to what was going on there other than she is facing difficulties with raising him without a father. My impression is she is really desperate to get someone in there to help out with that. I think this is a good woman in a tough spot which made me sad. She is genuine, funny, and can keep up in conversation. The thing is I am spending most of my time putting eye drops in my moms eyes every 20 minutes because they dont close. I swab out her mouth with a little sponge on a stick. I change her diaper. I watch her writhe in agony and cry out in her suffering which no drug can take away. I am a few months away from a divorce because I failed to save my wife. I am treading water myself. I would like to help her but I do not want her to get the impression or hope that it would be leading anywhere when I have no idea where I am going. Otherwise I would be more than willing to talk to her son assuming he was willing to talk to me. I am so sorry I went now that I cant describe it.
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