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I am going to be 100 percent honest! I will tell him about how I overhead his wifes personal trainer at the gym bragging to a bunch of his male coworkers how he "tapped that on more than one occassion". I will be tactful about it, and make no accusations, or misconceptions. I will simply relay the information to Josh. At that point he can run with it and do as he pleases!
What if the personal trainer was lying? Wouldn't be the first time a guy claimed to have boinged somebody he really didn't!
Would I tell my best friend? No. It's not my business to presume he wants to know, much less hear it from an outside party -- that's an incredibly humiliating experience. But I'd probably do whatever I could to get her caught.
I am going to be 100 percent honest! I will tell him about how I overhead his wifes personal trainer at the gym bragging to a bunch of his male coworkers how he "tapped that on more than one occassion". I will be tactful about it, and make no accusations, or misconceptions. I will simply relay the information to Josh. At that point he can run with it and do as he pleases!
With her personal trainer? I am aquaintances with the trainer, and I feel bad for my friend Josh. He is married to a yenta. Josh and I are like brothers, we have been friends since childhood. This will devastate him if he finds out and quite frankly I dont know if I have the heart to tell him! I can always ignore it, and even though there is a high probability he would never know that i know.. my conscience wont allow me to not say anything for somebody Ive been friends with since i was younger! I told him not to marry this whiny, money hungry , materialistic tramp...damn! Have you ever been in a situation like this?
My boyfriend was told by his daughter their mom was cheating. They found her message she sent to the guy she was having an affair with on the computer..Im sure it was devistating for her to find out...
Well here goes...about 7 years ago I was living with someone and come to find out-yes that person was having an affair...and EVERYONE knew but me...I happened to find out-I felt like no one was my friend enough to tell me..I felt stupid and I was heartbroken that no one cared enough to let me know-I wasted almost a year on someone that not only was cheating on me but my friends didn't have the balls to tell me. I stopped the relationship and the friendships-you should ask if the shoe was on the other foot would you want your friend to tell you?
Im busy now but I'll post later tonight on what happened. It wasn't good, but hopefully something good will come of it! Josh maybe getting divorced! Yenta.. his wife admitted to cheating on him and said it was his fault because he worked late and felt that he was abandoning her. Oh poor Yenta.. they dont have kids, she works out all day, drives a Lexus, and she doesn't work, all the while having a maid come once a week to clean their 4000 square foot mansion. Oh the horror! The poor woman was terrorized. Now my friend suffers, he was crying it broke my heart! Even though I know I did the right thing deep down, I feel awful! I feel like beating the sh*t out of his parents who all but threatened to disown him if he didnt marry her "because she was Jewish".. Meanwhile the nice Catholic girl that I set him up with years ago..the one he really loved and vice-versa was to be disowned along with Josh if he ever married her! Lesson here to parents.. if your children are good people support them unconditionally in their endeavors. If not your children maybe the ones abandoning you in the future.. The world is a fuc*ed up place..
Well here goes...about 7 years ago I was living with someone and come to find out-yes that person was having an affair...and EVERYONE knew but me...I happened to find out-I felt like no one was my friend enough to tell me..I felt stupid and I was heartbroken that no one cared enough to let me know-I wasted almost a year on someone that not only was cheating on me but my friends didn't have the balls to tell me. I stopped the relationship and the friendships-you should ask if the shoe was on the other foot would you want your friend to tell you?
It's unfortunate that you never considered the situation from your friends' point of view. It's a terrible position for a friend to be in because they had two really crappy choices: 1) place a huge burden on you that you may well not want to carry and risk that you'll resent them for dumping it on you, or 2) carry it themselves knowing full well that some day you'll find out anyway and come to resent them for not dumping it on you. Whether you agree with the decision they made or the reasoning behind it, they didn't tell you because they were trying to protect you -- and they were carrying a sh*tty burden on your behalf that they certainly never wanted to. And you thanked them for it by cutting them off. Not cool.
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. Now my friend suffers, he was crying it broke my heart! Even though I know I did the right thing deep down, I feel awful! I feel like beating the sh*t out of his parents who all but threatened to disown him if he didnt marry her "because she was Jewish".. Meanwhile the nice Catholic girl that I set him up with years ago..the one he really loved and vice-versa was to be disowned along with Josh if he ever married her! Lesson here to parents.. if your children are good people support them unconditionally in their endeavors. If not your children maybe the ones abandoning you in the future.. The world is a fuc*ed up place..
