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Old 02-21-2011, 07:06 PM
 
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break the heart !! Oh, it is hard to say!!!
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Old 02-21-2011, 07:07 PM
 
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Long story short:

We go to different schools, in two different states. She comes back home in the holidays when I come back home and that's when we see each other and also in summer. Nothing wrong with our relationship at all, she prefers it this way and I do too.

But I've been contemplating breaking up for a few weeks now, don't want to share the exact reason but how do you tell someone that isn't here about it? Wait until she gets back?

I really like her a lot, and its the same back but yeahhh. So how to do it? I'm still not 100% sure if I want to yet, but its something that I'm just contemplating though, and no I haven't talked to her about this yet either but I will when I make up my mind if I want to or no.
I don't really understand whats to break up? You say you want to be single for awhile, but that sounds to me like what you already are. Do you not want her as a friend?? If you don't want to see her on those rare times that you do, just tell her you've got other commitments during the holidays, and that you can't spend the time with her.
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Old 02-21-2011, 07:11 PM
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be a gentleman and do it via text message
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Old 02-21-2011, 07:17 PM
 
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If you truly want to break up, do it honestly. Look her in the eyes and tell her what you have said on here.

Also, I am very sorry for you loss. There is nothing wrong with needing a break from a relationship, but right now might not be the best time to lose another person you care about.
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Old 02-21-2011, 07:39 PM
 
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Long story short:

We go to different schools, in two different states. She comes back home in the holidays when I come back home and that's when we see each other and also in summer. Nothing wrong with our relationship at all, she prefers it this way and I do too.

But I've been contemplating breaking up for a few weeks now, don't want to share the exact reason but how do you tell someone that isn't here about it? Wait until she gets back?

I really like her a lot, and its the same back but yeahhh. So how to do it? I'm still not 100% sure if I want to yet, but its something that I'm just contemplating though, and no I haven't talked to her about this yet either but I will when I make up my mind if I want to or no.
I followed that Sprint commercial. I have unlimited text messages.
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