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View Poll Results: You don't think that Gays/Lesbians are capable of falling in love?
Yes, Gays and Lesbians can fall in Love. 33 100.00%
No, Gays and Lesbians are only together for sex. 0 0%
I am not sure. 0 0%
Voters: 33. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-25-2008, 06:48 AM
 
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There aren't enough lesbians where I live for me to be promiscuous...

In any case, I'm the kind of girl who at least has to be in a relationship with a girl before I have sex with her.

I don't know why gay men are less likely to be in a stable relationship...I might have to do some research.
Well maybe it has to do where you live? It is harder for gay people to be together? Less gay people around, most just leave when they can, lots of closeted people, some even married to the opposite sex, a lot of descrimination, etc. Where I live in a big city, I see plenty of lesbians and yes, gay males together as couples.
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Old 11-25-2008, 10:32 AM
 
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Do you think been a homosexual is only about having sex? Well let me tell you that sex can be part of the relationship (but not all gay people need to have sex to be stable and some just don't have sex - just like heterosexuals). But gays and lesbians do fall in love and they can have stable relationships. Many can last together longer than some Heterosexuals. That is why many want to marry, cause they are in love and they want to be recognize by the law as a true partnership. They don't care about what churches want to do. You want a 'Holy' marriage you go to a church, you want a 'Legal' marriage you can go to a courtroom. And for some there is always Las Vagas, I guess.


Here just read on it if you don't believe me...

Gay couples can be as stable as straights, evidence suggests / Bush quote makes longevity an issue

Yes I think that they can fall in Love and have healthy relationships, even raise kids. That is why they should be allow to get marry. I met a friend in college who was raised by two gay man. At first I wasn't sure how that will turn out. But he was into sports like I was and love girls as well. And in the end, he turn out straigh as they come. He is married to a woman and they both have two beautiful smart children. Such a nice and good family I must say. That is why I don't believe in what religious people preach.
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Old 11-25-2008, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Well maybe it has to do where you live? It is harder for gay people to be together? Less gay people around, most just leave when they can, lots of closeted people, some even married to the opposite sex, a lot of descrimination, etc. Where I live in a big city, I see plenty of lesbians and yes, gay males together as couples.
I did mention where I live in my post. lol.

I know my dating options will be limited but oh well.
I'm only 18 so it's not like I just NEED to be surrounded by lesbians (even though that would be awesome).

The closest city I can really think of going to would be Dallas and I am planning a trip to Nashville soon. The Lipstick Lounge is calling my name.
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Old 11-25-2008, 05:25 PM
 
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^ Yeah I hope you can find happiness elsewhere.
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Old 11-25-2008, 05:26 PM
 
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Yes I think that they can fall in Love and have healthy relationships, even raise kids. That is why they should be allow to get marry. I met a friend in college who was raised by two gay man. At first I wasn't sure how that will turn out. But he was into sports like I was and love girls as well. And in the end, he turn out straigh as they come. He is married to a woman and they both have two beautiful smart children. Such a nice and good family I must say. That is why I don't believe in what religious people preach.
Thanks. That was a nice story.
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Old 11-26-2008, 04:35 PM
 
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So it seems like the majority voted yes. So now all we need is that marriage license to make it publicly official.
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Old 11-26-2008, 05:07 PM
 
Location: Where the light shines
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Now wouldn't that be perfect...ther's a cure there's a cure!
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Old 11-26-2008, 05:09 PM
 
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I did mention where I live in my post. lol.

I know my dating options will be limited but oh well.
I'm only 18 so it's not like I just NEED to be surrounded by lesbians (even though that would be awesome).

The closest city I can really think of going to would be Dallas and I am planning a trip to Nashville soon. The Lipstick Lounge is calling my name.
Dallas? Why wouldn't you do Austin instead, isn't their slogan "Keep Austin Weird"? And I don't mean that as in gays are weird, I mean that I think it's probably a laid-back cool city, the ONLY city in Texas that I would even think to visit if I was ever near Texas.
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Old 11-26-2008, 08:02 PM
 
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Now wouldn't that be perfect...ther's a cure there's a cure!
Hmmm, Ok. I see you haven't even vote. So what do you really think?
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Old 11-26-2008, 08:43 PM
 
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the ONLY city in Texas that I would even think to visit if I was ever near Texas.
Houston's not bad. It's the only city in Texas I've visited, so I guess Austin's sure to be more impressive, but I like Houston.
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