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Old 11-01-2022, 08:14 PM
 
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Yorktown Girl NO! Your too soft.

If your kid ruins your Hello Fresh Dinner, what are you going to do? Why not allow him/her to start out preparing a side dish? The younger he/she is, the further from a direct flame he/she should be.
.......Kids need to learn how to use a stove. If they burn the meal then that's their failure.

If you child forget a pack of tissues or a pen in their pocket and it ruins the entire load of laundry? Folding laundry is less likely to be problematic.
......If your kid leaves a pen in their pocket, so what? It's their fault and they need to learn from that.

Pick activities your child can succeed at without your input on a regular schedule. Don't set them up for failure.
......Setting your kids up for failure is actually a great idea, not a bad idea. Failure is a great teacher within reason.
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Old 11-02-2022, 07:33 AM
 
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Yorktown Girl NO! Your too soft.

If your kid ruins your Hello Fresh Dinner, what are you going to do? Why not allow him/her to start out preparing a side dish? The younger he/she is, the further from a direct flame he/she should be.
.......Kids need to learn how to use a stove. If they burn the meal then that's their failure.

If you child forget a pack of tissues or a pen in their pocket and it ruins the entire load of laundry? Folding laundry is less likely to be problematic.
......If your kid leaves a pen in their pocket, so what? It's their fault and they need to learn from that.

Pick activities your child can succeed at without your input on a regular schedule. Don't set them up for failure.
......Setting your kids up for failure is actually a great idea, not a bad idea. Failure is a great teacher within reason.
It's not a burnt meal I'm worried about. It's setting a potholder or kitchen towel on fire with a propane stove.

The Hello Fresh meals expect a certain level of cooking knowledge. An adult (hopefully) would know what sauté onions until soft or wait until the oil and tomatoes separate would mean, not a child. Which brings up the question of the age and experience of the child. You can't throw a six year old into kitchen with a Hello Fresh meal and expect he'll be able to follow the directions. You could supervise a middle school child and after awhile they could do it alone.

As for laundry, the pen explodes and the beige khaki uniform pants are stained/unwearable. Ask me how I know

Failure within reason means picking activities your child can succeed at.
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Old 11-08-2022, 05:57 AM
 
Location: Vermont
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cooking
laundry
basic housekeeping
money 'management'

skills they'll need and use every day for the rest of their lives - they will make mistakes from which they will learn, theoretically.

I'm also a big proponent of outdoor experiences. Self sufficiency, confidence and resilience are gained ..... hiking, camping, fishing..that type of activity.
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