My Son is still living in Texas with his Dad. He is doing well in school and has grown so fast. I have visitation, he comes to California for Holidays and Summer. Last spring break I took him to Hawaii. It is very hard as a Mother not to have your child with you everyday. I am missing out on things in his life , but trying to make special memories when I can. I was teaching him to drive over the summer. As much as I love and miss him, I guess it was for the best that he went to Texas when he did.
I had been living with my parents for years and taking care of them. In May 2011 my Father passed away, and November 2011 my Mother passed. (she could'nt Live without him)
If my son had been with me during those years, I would not have been able to give him the attention I would have wanted to , or that he needed. It was all I could do to keep myself healthy enough to care for the two of them. I guess, when we think we know best, we just need to pray , do what we know is right and let GOD lead us. Oh, and still not divorced yet. Should be final soon I hope. Lets just say that we all reep what we sow.
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