I would look at areas around Winston-Salem...there are some excellent schools in Forsyth County and Wake Forest Baptist has an excellent nursing program.
Nursing Students - Wake Forest Baptist, North Carolina You will find a great arts community there, with loads of live theater, a symphony, an opera, museums, and a beautiful downtown arts district.
DADA - The Downtown Arts District Association of Winston - Salem Shopping is excellent in the city with one of the best malls in NC...you won't find many luxury retailers, but the shopping is adequate with stores like H&M and Trader Joe's. Proximity to the mountains and the hilly terrain make it a beautiful area and it's very family-friendly.
Winston-Salem and the Triad in general is definitely worth a look.