So my coworker blew me off (person, house, conversation)

[movin'on]

This is somewhat awkward. She was supposed to come over today at noon and did not, nor did she call me. Now, I don't really care all that much, but I do find it rude. Now I have to work with her. Needless to say, I will not be issuing another invite. What would you do? Me? I think I'll just not say anything.

[mrstewart]

No big deal. Maybe she forgot. Maybe she forgot your number. Maybe there was an emergency...things happen. Don't let it bother you.

[sierraAZ]

I wouldn't be too happy with somebody wasting my day, either. Well, I suppose the issue will come up tomorrow. If the explanation makes some sense, I'd understand; if not, I'll let it slide, but no more chumminess and invites will follow.

[Movie Lover]

I bet it felt good!

[Huckleberry3911948]

lots of flakes in the office. a stand up means the conversations that you had with her were rip off.
be pleasant but dont go there anymore.

[stan4]

Yeah. Give 'em one chance. If it was something flakey, write 'em off. But at least hear the explanation. Could have been serious. Did you call her?

[movin'on]

Well, she called me two hours later to say she had not forgotten but her housework is getting out of control. How lame. I set my alarm this morning to wake up and clean. She could have called me. I told her I'd call her back, but I won't. I just don't have time for this kind of stuff.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by movin'on

Well, she called me two hours lalter to say she had not forgotten but her housework is getting out of control. How lame. I set my alarm this morning to wake up and clean. She could have called me. I told her I'd call her back, but I won't. I just don't have time for this kind of stuff.

In this case I say "screw her"!

[jfre81]

Don't date coworkers. Anything that goes bad can get carried over into work and that's never pretty.

[stan4]

Yeah, screw her. I tried for years to be friends with a flakey person like that. Nothing but aggravation.