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Old 04-23-2019, 12:22 PM
 
Location: my mommy
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Then reality check. For $1500 you can get back to LA. You need to be an adult and take responsibility for yourself and stop blaming your Uncle.
I think my anger is partly due to him having such a stiff upper lip in regards to my struggle with depression and being unemployed.
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Old 04-23-2019, 12:27 PM
 
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I think my anger is partly due to him having such a stiff upper lip in regards to my struggle with depression and being unemployed.
You are projecting and as others have said you need to take responsibility and stop with the blame shifting. You asked if you should be angry with your uncle and the answer is no.
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Old 04-23-2019, 12:35 PM
 
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OP previous subject https://www.city-data.com/forum/colle...ry-degree.html

OP has so many issues. Frankly, I agree with the uncle.
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Old 04-23-2019, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Albany, NY
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Chump change I'm sure.
You need to grow up and take responsibility for yourself.
Finish rehab and follow up on what you need to do after you get out. Follow their recommendations. If you do this maybe your uncle will see that you're becoming an adult.
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Old 04-23-2019, 04:05 PM
 
Location: Surfside Beach, SC
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I don’t have access to my trust. Before this year I was scraping by and living in a motel room in LA without support. My uncle, the trustee, has been granting me a modest amount to pay for my medical bills and food but I don’t have more than $1500 in my account at any time.
Just a few days ago, you said that you are spending $20,000.00 a month! What's up with that? If your uncle is doling out smaller amounts at a time, why don't you open another secret account on your own and stash most of that money in there and save up so that you can do what you want.

In another thread you posted your picture and said that you are almost 28 years old. Why is your uncle still your trustee? There has to be a lot more to this story than you are telling us.
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Old 04-23-2019, 06:37 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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A a Houstonian, totally aware of living charges here, I am calling BS on this whole fabricated story.
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Old 04-23-2019, 06:58 PM
 
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Saying "I wish I were dead" is not enough to put you in involuntary psych hold - I know that to be true.

That said, I do not think being critical of the OP is helpful so all I say to the OP is I wish you the best.
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Old 04-23-2019, 07:10 PM
 
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Saying "I wish I were dead" is not enough to put you in involuntary psych hold - I know that to be true.

That said, I do not think being critical of the OP is helpful so all I say to the OP is I wish you the best.
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And enabling someone is not helping them either.
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Old 04-26-2019, 05:14 PM
 
Location: my mommy
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A a Houstonian, totally aware of living charges here, I am calling BS on this whole fabricated story.
It’s to the pay for the program I’m in. Not living expenses.
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Old 04-27-2019, 06:01 PM
 
Location: Caverns measureless to man...
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It’s to the pay for the program I’m in. Not living expenses.
How did this uncle get put in charge of deciding to spend tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars of your money to participate in a "program" you don't even seem to want to have any part of? I'm starting to think that yeah, maybe you ought to be a little irritated with the guy.
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