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I'm too polite to do that. I usually try changing the topic, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't.
You know - it could be your appearance. Normally with guys the default convo is sports, not sex. On the other hand a lot of guys talking to you might stray into the latter territory.
What kind of people do you hang out with who just talk about sex? Are you 15? Adults don't typically do that....maybe a group of 20 year old guys hanging out together will, but it's not like they're talking like that to everyone.
The ones who talk about it the most do it the least.
Nope, not necessarily. We have close friend that are great in every way, but when we are camping or spending a few days away together, it is always insinuated by the wife in a round about way that they just "did" it. They aren't liars, I guess they just like to announce it and are proud? of the fact.
Like we care? Like we need to hear it?
It makes us and mutual friends very uncomfortable. We just don't want to hear it. No one has told her we don't, but a couple of us have discussed it.
I get to speak with plenty of folks, I really enjoy talking about pretty much any topic, since there's always something I can learn from others. Something I've noticed is that people whom speak about sex the more often, are those who don't have any other type of -interesting- conversation. The less interesting of them always resort to sex as a topic when they fail to engage in real/fulfilling conversations.
Am I the only one who has this views?
The guys are just trying to get into your pants. Men know that the easiest way to have sex with a woman is to get her to talk about it.
Since you bring up this topic, I personally don't know anyone like this, but my SO's (significant other's) male cousin once told him, "My hobby is f-ing." My SO doesn't care for this particular cousin. The guy had 4 kids at a very young age with a woman who cheated on him with a woman, he's smug, etc. & now on his 3rd marriage & is only in his 40s still. He's just not a good character, high class person at all, but I'm sure he thinks he is.
So I can imagine that those types of people who only bring up the topic of sex definitely & obviously have zero substance, are probably crass idiots who think all the people of the opposite sex want them OR they may be the type who's never had sex so they're obsessed with it.
I get to speak with plenty of folks, I really enjoy talking about pretty much any topic, since there's always something I can learn from others. Something I've noticed is that people whom speak about sex the more often, are those who don't have any other type of -interesting- conversation. The less interesting of them always resort to sex as a topic when they fail to engage in real/fulfilling conversations.
Am I the only one who has this views?
No, i like to talk about sex or almost anything else someone wants to talk about. Except Star Wars and on-line strategy video games.
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