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Old 08-30-2015, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I'm not going to get on the usual "dump him, he is Satan's spawn" bandwagon of CD. However, I give my friends more notice whenever I travel out of town....my Facebook friends that is. I couldn't imagine not telling a woman I'm having sex with that I'll be out of pocket.
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Old 08-30-2015, 11:41 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm not going to get on the usual "dump him, he is Satan's spawn" bandwagon of CD. However, I give my friends more notice whenever I travel out of town....my Facebook friends that is. I couldn't imagine not telling a woman I'm having sex with that I'll be out of pocket.
That's why I'm questioning if its an actual relationship or are they just doing the bone dance......
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Old 08-30-2015, 12:08 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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We havent had sex actually. Of any kind.
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Last edited by Miss Blue; 08-30-2015 at 04:07 PM.. Reason: tossing flames baiting for a fight
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Old 08-30-2015, 01:35 PM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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It seems weird to me that you would expect someone to tell you everywhere they go, unless you were living together as a couple or in a long-term, serious relationship.

Do you all usually see each other day? I could understand if you did and you became worried because they suddenly disappeared, but if not, I don't see what the big deal is.
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Old 08-30-2015, 02:57 PM
 
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You are not in a relationship. Let me rephrase that. You are in a relationship, he isnt.
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Old 08-30-2015, 03:21 PM
 
Location: Texas
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What exactly is your question?
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Old 08-30-2015, 04:04 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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What exactly is your question?
I guess I wanted to know how other people in relationships handle their partner's bad habits and how this kind of thing plays out. I feel that it's inconsiderate behavior even for a friend. Yes, we usually talk every day.

But I guess my perception of our relationship is not his.
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Old 08-30-2015, 04:14 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I guess I wanted to know how other people in relationships handle their partner's bad habits and how this kind of thing plays out. I feel that it's inconsiderate behavior even for a friend. Yes, we usually talk every day.

But I guess my perception of our relationship is not his.
I'm not friends or dating or in any relationship with anyone I'm so far off the same page from as you describe.

Bad habit = not closing the kitchen cabinet when you get a plate

NOT

Glaring communications problem
Difference in priorities
Inability to be considerate of someone's feelings
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Old 08-30-2015, 07:18 PM
 
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The rule is: You figure out what their faults are and decide if you can live with them.

Can you? If so, then don't complain about him.

If not, then let it go.
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Old 08-30-2015, 07:32 PM
 
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What kind of person considers themself to be in a relationship, but blows off contact made 'after bedtime'?

Obviously neither of you is serious about being together.
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