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My ex-husband did not see our daughter for a year. Due to an opportunity of a lifetime, she was able to visit with him. Wisely, she chose to simply have lunch with him, and complete the rest of her vacation.
After not seeing dear daughter for a year he chose to bring a card from his current wife.
About 2 years ago, ex husband and current wife, got into a major domestic, which resulted in him being hauled off to jail.
Current wife decides to call my children, and leave endless rambling messages about how their father was dying. When asked where he was she said, " I cannot tell you that..." She was hopped up on pills and alcohol.
It took three days to find out exactly what happened. Their father was in jail for three days and she ended up being arrested for misuse of 9-1-1 after numerous calls to 9-1-1, after I told her she needs to stay away from children.
My ex-husband did not see our daughter for a year. Due to an opportunity of a lifetime, she was able to visit with him. Wisely, she chose to simply have lunch with him, and complete the rest of her vacation.
After not seeing dear daughter for a year he chose to bring a card from his current wife.
About 2 years ago, ex husband and current wife, got into a major domestic, which resulted in him being hauled off to jail.
Current wife decides to call my children, and leave endless rambling messages about how their father was dying. When asked where he was she said, " I cannot tell you that..." She was hopped up on pills and alcohol.
It took three days to find out exactly what happened. Their father was in jail for three days and she ended up being arrested for misuse of 9-1-1 after numerous calls to 9-1-1, after I told her she needs to stay away from children.
I am venting and angry.
I'm trying to figure out exactly what the vent is about. Is it that he brought a card from his current wife? What did the card say? Was it an apology for her behavior? He's clearly out of jail ... perhaps her situation has changed as well.
Sounds like your daughter is better off not seeing her father right now until he gets his act together. I don't know how old your daughter is, but she sounds very mature. Best of luck to her.
I'm trying to figure out exactly what the vent is about. Is it that he brought a card from his current wife? What did the card say? Was it an apology for her behavior? He's clearly out of jail ... perhaps her situation has changed as well.
I told him, specifically, no contact from his current wife with the children.
Sounds like your daughter is better off not seeing her father right now until he gets his act together. I don't know how old your daughter is, but she sounds very mature. Best of luck to her.
She is one heck of a young lady, she can handle herself but I do feel this woman is a threat to my children. It's as if in three days, (ex husband and then girlfriend now wife)they undid all the work I put in went kaput.
Last edited by FlowerPower00; 06-27-2014 at 03:01 PM..
I told him, specifically, no contact from his current wife with the children.
People like that never change.
If your daughter is an adult (you haven't said, but it sounds like it), it's probably not your place to dictate that. So there's probably no reason for him to abide by your demand.
not much you can do unfortunately given the distance between you and the ex and his current wife. about all you can do is block her number, but she will figure that out quickly and either change her number, or find a way to contact you without you knowing its her until too late. the best you can do is just hang up on her when she calls, and tell your children to avoid her as much as possible.
If your daughter is an adult (you haven't said, but it sounds like it), it's probably not your place to dictate that. So there's probably no reason for him to abide by your demand.
My dear daughter is a teenager.
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