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Old 08-09-2013, 03:35 PM
 
Location: Tampa bay
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I often have dreams of my loved ones who have passed on. I would think after those dreams they would make me feel good but they make me depressed, and just miss them more.

There is a second in the dream where I actually think they are alive and life is good though
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Old 08-09-2013, 04:40 PM
 
Location: Hills of TN
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They know you miss them so they come to "visit". Since you are not psychic, this is the only way they can appear to you. They are trying to ease your pain. Be grateful and thank them.
You will see them again... in time...
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Old 08-09-2013, 04:50 PM
 
Location: Tampa bay
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I thought it was because I am always thinking about them and it comes out in the dream...it is comforting to think they have something to do with it
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Old 08-09-2013, 05:04 PM
 
Location: Hills of TN
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They do
Death is no more than a transition onto a different dimension.
We don't die.

You may want to check out the book "Many lives, many masters" by Brian Weiss.
Or "Walking in the garden of souls" by George Anderson. Both helped me find peace.
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Old 08-09-2013, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Tampa bay
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[quote=Zen Dragonfly;30891892]They do
Death is no more than a transition onto a different dimension.
We don't die.

You may want to check out the book "Many lives, many masters" by Brian Weiss.
Or "Walking in the garden of souls" by George Anderson. Both helped me find peace.[/quote

Thank you I will
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Old 08-09-2013, 10:33 PM
 
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I have dreams about my dad who died when I was 19. I'm now 32. I have these dreams where he is alive again and everyone else in the dream, family or friends, seem to know that it's odd he's here again but nobody wants to ask questions. He also hardly ever speaks. We are just happy he's back and we try to continue our lives with him again. I always feel very happy awaking from a dream about him. I feel special that I got to see him again even if he is in dream form. It took me a long time to get to this point though.
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Old 08-10-2013, 12:22 AM
 
Location: West of the Catalinas East of the Tortolitas
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I have never (that I remember) dreamed of my parents, but I have had dreams with my husband in them. Very vivid ones. I've always been curious as to why I never dreamed about my parents. I loved them deeply, but maybe I handled their passing well as they were older, whereas my husband died relatively young.
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Old 08-10-2013, 08:41 AM
 
Location: Not where I want to be
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I often have dreams of my loved ones who have passed on. I would think after those dreams they would make me feel good but they make me depressed, and just miss them more.

There is a second in the dream where I actually think they are alive and life is good though
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Old 08-10-2013, 08:46 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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I have dreams of my mother and father who have passed. Many times I go long periods without it happening and then I have quite a few.

Most of the time, I really do not want to wake up, because they are so real in my dreams. I can see them, feel them, hear them. They are so alive.

Most often when I wake up, I go back to sleep to try and continue the dream and it normally works.

I have also had death dreams. Truthfully, I hate when this happens, because when I wake up, it is to find that the person has either died in the night or they pass within a couple of days.

It has happened 3 or so times, and it happened once where the person did not die. My brother is the only one who did not die.

I have a lot of dreams where the things actually happen, as well as thoughts of things that come to fruition.

It is just weird.
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Old 08-11-2013, 08:06 PM
 
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I have had one dream where my sister appeared. She seemed so real like I could almost touch her. She was wearing a red shirt and she was smiling and telling me she was ok. It was so comforting. She died of an overdose and we don't know if it was suicide or accidental so it just made me feel better.
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