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Old 09-03-2018, 07:24 AM
 
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Have we discussed Beauty Myths? Those "rules" of grooming, skincare, makeup, etc. that you always believed to be true then later found to be completely false.

I've found myself wondering about this topic because I recently stumbled on one of these myths that is a complete game changer that I wish I had known decades ago.

I always believed, wholeheartedly, that because I have oily skin, the absolute last thing I should ever put on my face is oil of ANY kind. It turns out that the exact opposite is true. The skin produces excess sebum because the skin is dehydrated. By nourishing it with oils, the natural oil production is actually reduced. Mind blown!

A couple of months ago, I took a complete leap of faith and decided to try a facial oil. I purchased a blend on Amazon that had nearly 2000 reviews and 4.7 stars (and is actually pretty cheap!). It's a blend of olive, lavender, almond, and grapeseed oils. I apply it to clean skin every night before bed. And my skin is the most normal it's been in my four-plus decades, and hasn't been this supple since college. Oil production is significantly lower, and my makeup actually stays in place all day.

So what beauty myths have you come across? What else have I been doing wrong my whole life?
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Old 09-03-2018, 09:14 AM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Have we discussed Beauty Myths? Those "rules" of grooming, skincare, makeup, etc. that you always believed to be true then later found to be completely false.

I've found myself wondering about this topic because I recently stumbled on one of these myths that is a complete game changer that I wish I had known decades ago.

I always believed, wholeheartedly, that because I have oily skin, the absolute last thing I should ever put on my face is oil of ANY kind. It turns out that the exact opposite is true. The skin produces excess sebum because the skin is dehydrated. By nourishing it with oils, the natural oil production is actually reduced. Mind blown!

A couple of months ago, I took a complete leap of faith and decided to try a facial oil. I purchased a blend on Amazon that had nearly 2000 reviews and 4.7 stars (and is actually pretty cheap!). It's a blend of olive, lavender, almond, and grapeseed oils. I apply it to clean skin every night before bed. And my skin is the most normal it's been in my four-plus decades, and hasn't been this supple since college. Oil production is significantly lower, and my makeup actually stays in place all day.

So what beauty myths have you come across? What else have I been doing wrong my whole life?

Do these oils not clog pores...as I've been led to believe, and have experienced?

I too have this type of skin but I'm older than you. I still use Neutrogena products known for NOT clogging pores...I'd rather have drier skin than clogged up pores.
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Old 09-03-2018, 09:39 AM
 
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Do these oils not clog pores...as I've been led to believe, and have experienced?

I too have this type of skin but I'm older than you. I still use Neutrogena products known for NOT clogging pores...I'd rather have drier skin than clogged up pores.
They do not clog pores. In fact, my pores have never been clearer.

Do some googling of oils like jojoba oil, rose hip oil, etc. Don’t take my word for it. :-)
Here’s a start: https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/4436351
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Old 09-03-2018, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Southwest Washington State
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When I was much younger, I was told to “tone” my face after cleansing. I never knew what “toning” was supposed to do, but it involved a liquid that had alcohol in it, and it stung and burned my skin.

So, I simply finished with a little water.

No one needs harsh substances on one’s face. I just ignored that rec and proceded with cleanser and moisturizer.

In the 1980s most women came into contact with the Color Me Beautiful book that told us what “season” we were, and recommended a color palette for us. I am a Spring, and I learned a lot from reading that book. I know I look best in warm colors, and this knowledge has been helpful with choosing clothing and cosmetics. But I have also learned that I am happy wearing denim in almost any form, and chambray. I don’t care if they aren’t Spring colors. I love wearing them too much to give them up. Same with gray. I prefer it for me over black, which seemed like the universal color for everyone for awhile. So, I wear denims, chambrays and grays with pleasure, and don’t worry about always wearing Spring colors, which often aren’t available anyway.
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Old 09-03-2018, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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The less is more rule. I started to do more and it worked.

Also double cleansing has been amazing for my skin. And they always say washing is drying - it is alabout choosing the right cleanser.
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Old 09-03-2018, 10:50 PM
 
Location: Dessert
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In the 1980s most women came into contact with the Color Me Beautiful book that told us what “season” we were, and recommended a color palette for us. I am a Spring, and I learned a lot from reading that book. I know I look best in warm colors, and this knowledge has been helpful with choosing clothing and cosmetics. But I have also learned that I am happy wearing denim in almost any form, and chambray. I don’t care if they aren’t Spring colors. I love wearing them too much to give them up. Same with gray. I prefer it for me over black, which seemed like the universal color for everyone for awhile. So, I wear denims, chambrays and grays with pleasure, and don’t worry about always wearing Spring colors, which often aren’t available anyway.
I'm a Spring, too, but I sampled a couple of other color theories besides the book. Apparently, denim blue works for all color types/seasons, which could explain its widespread popularity.

Beauty myth: brush your hair 100 strokes a day.
This used to be good advice, when women had long hair and didn't wash it often, maybe only once a month.

Brushing it over and over moves the oils from your scalp all the way down to the dry ends of your hair, leaving it all evenly moisturized.

But if you wash your hair every day, there is really no point.
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Old 09-04-2018, 05:38 AM
 
Location: Southeastern North Carolina
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Do these oils not clog pores...as I've been led to believe, and have experienced?

I too have this type of skin but I'm older than you. I still use Neutrogena products known for NOT clogging pores...I'd rather have drier skin than clogged up pores.
Rosehip seed oil seems lighter and less greasy than some of the other facial oils; I've been using it all summer, no clogged pores.
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Old 09-04-2018, 06:20 AM
 
Location: Where the sun likes to shine!!
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A couple of months ago, I took a complete leap of faith and decided to try a facial oil. I purchased a blend on Amazon that had nearly 2000 reviews and 4.7 stars (and is actually pretty cheap!). It's a blend of olive, lavender, almond, and grapeseed oils. I apply it to clean skin every night before bed. And my skin is the most normal it's been in my four-plus decades, and hasn't been this supple since college.
I would love to try that but every time I use any kind of oil on my face at night I break out. I will check into yours.

Which one did you get?


I have tried coconut oil, vitamin E oil, and almond. All no good for me. Heck I break out from Collagen lotions. The lavender in yours must jut be a scent for the carrier oils.
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Old 09-04-2018, 06:51 AM
 
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In the 1980s most women came into contact with the Color Me Beautiful book that told us what “season” we were, and recommended a color palette for us. I am a Spring, and I learned a lot from reading that book. I know I look best in warm colors, and this knowledge has been helpful with choosing clothing and cosmetics. But I have also learned that I am happy wearing denim in almost any form, and chambray. I don’t care if they aren’t Spring colors. I love wearing them too much to give them up. Same with gray. I prefer it for me over black, which seemed like the universal color for everyone for awhile. So, I wear denims, chambrays and grays with pleasure, and don’t worry about always wearing Spring colors, which often aren’t available anyway.
Wow ... I haven't thought about CMB in a long time. I was too young to have my colors done, but I remember whenever we went shopping, my mother had to have her little swatch book with her.
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Old 09-04-2018, 06:53 AM
 
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The less is more rule. I started to do more and it worked.

Also double cleansing has been amazing for my skin. And they always say washing is drying - it is alabout choosing the right cleanser.
I've been doing more as well, and the benefits have been tenfold. I have an evening ritual now, and it's certainly not as easy as just jumping into bed, but it's been so worth it.
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