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I've been called ugly once before, and the comment has really been stuck in my head recently. It's gotten to the point where I don't feel very confident in how dateable I am to girls in college. Perhaps it's because of my big nose, not sure.. Just curious to hear others' opinions, both good or bad! Thanks
It's a slippery slope because girls dig confidence. If you are confident, you will find it easy to be funny, witty, etc, which will get girls, even if you are just average looking. I'm a 25 year old straight guy, but you aren't ugly. If you have a good personality, you shouldn't have a problem with women. It's not a walk in the park for any guy, just remember that. If you have any questions, just ask here or send me a direct message. Seriously, don't worry, if you can't get girls in college, it will be because of your attitude or personality rather than your looks.
Agree with the post above. I'm a guy as well, but i can tell you there's nothing wrong with the way you look and you should be able to get any woman you want. Don't let some stupid comment derail you.
Thanks for the reply! For the record though, I never show my insecurities in person, haha. I always walk, act and talk confident when I'm with others, and always strive to show my nice, funny personality, because that's all anyone can really do to make themselves more attractive apart from their looks. It's just from my experience being friend-zoned that I wondered if my looks were the deciding factor in that decision. Never tried an anonymous post before, and was just curious how others perceived me based on physical attractiveness, that's all.
Thanks for the reply! For the record though, I never show my insecurities in person, haha. I always walk, act and talk confident when I'm with others, and always strive to show my nice, funny personality, because that's all anyone can really do to make themselves more attractive apart from their looks. It's just from my experience being friend-zoned that I wondered if my looks were the deciding factor in that decision. Never tried an anonymous post before, and was just curious how others perceived me based on physical attractiveness, that's all.
I would be willing to bet that your friend zones are from the way you interact with them. It's impossible to know though without more details or actually seeing you interacting in person. I highly doubt it is your looks.
Who has called you ugly? I'm betting it's other guys, and not women! If your not getting the dates you want, you're not asking out enough women. And don't wait until she's already become a friend, ask her out early on, even if it means taking more of a risk that you're unsure if you'll be compatible.
Take a look at pics of Adrien Brody, a celebrity many women find very attractive and sexy, even though he has a prominent nose.
Thanks for the reply! For the record though, I never show my insecurities in person, haha. I always walk, act and talk confident when I'm with others, and always strive to show my nice, funny personality, because that's all anyone can really do to make themselves more attractive apart from their looks. It's just from my experience being friend-zoned that I wondered if my looks were the deciding factor in that decision.Never tried an anonymous post before, and was just curious how others perceived me based on physical attractiveness, that's all.
So, no one actually called you ugly? Asking for advice based on something that didn't happen is ugly.
I've been called ugly once before, and the comment has really been stuck in my head recently. It's gotten to the point where I don't feel very confident in how dateable I am to girls in college. Perhaps it's because of my big nose, not sure.. Just curious to hear others' opinions, both good or bad! Thanks
Lose the hat in the first photo, the rest are just fine. I think you are cute but you are younger than all of my children so I'm not sure how much that counts.
I see no reason for a lack of confidence on your part. It appears you like to laugh, you seem to have friends and look as comfortable in dress clothes as you do casual wear. Just lose the hat in photo number 1 and I think you will do fine. Don't let those girls intimidate you, they are just as human as you are just girls. Treat them well, don't lie to them, cheat on them, steal from them or lead them on if you don't have true feelings for them and enjoy your dating life and youth.
Whatever you do, don't seek a girl just to have sex with her, seek her for who she is and when you do have sex make sure you are quadruple protected.
Bullying is horrendous and sorry you were a recipient. You are no where near unattractive (I don't think anyone should be referred to as ugly) so imagine for a second what that could be like if that were the case. Consider the source of who says such things because I can pretty much guarantee they're not someone you'll be wanting to spend any time around or someone who has much to contribute to society in general. Be yourself and use that great smile often, good things will come your way.
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