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Beauty is a logical reflection. It says more about the reflector than it does the subject....You really ought not to base your self-worth on you looks, whether comeliness or homeliness, as being a human being makes you worthy of dignity. Avoid these bullies and seek therapy if you still feel bad about yourself.
It's been a couple of years and like all things, looks too change. I think you've turned into a fabulous looking young man! Hell, I'd date you....and I'm a guy!
It's been a couple of years and like all things, looks too change. I think you've turned into a fabulous looking young man! Hell, I'd date you....and I'm a guy!
No, just ignore the people who said you're ugly. If you care about what other people think then you are just self conscious. Don't care what other people think and don't get paranoid. Don't make yourself think that you have a problem.
Ppl just keep calling me ugly and it really hurts. i've experienced this, a good chunk of my life and it still happens. I dont see how i'm ugly. this is me .
I don't know if you need a psychologist, but you definately need a grammar coach....Just kidding!......Or am I?
On a serious note, I can't imagine too many people with self esteem putting themselves out there like that for the world to judge. So in my humble opinion. I think your a fraud. I hope I'm wrong, but some things are just not adding up. Plus, I am a guy and unless another guy has traditional good looks, it is hard for me to tell what is attractive to women. Besides myself of course.....lol. I know what your thinking, no shortage of self-esteem there. Or perhaps, your really thinking that co ky, arrogant, s n of a b tch...I never said I didn't have faults....
If you're around toxic people who always tell you negative things about yourself, over time it's understandable that you might actually start to believe those people even if they are not speaking the truth. It's very possible that these people who are telling you that you are ugly, are themselves very unhappy and insecure about themselves. When they talk down to you, they make themselves feel temporarily better. It's a horrible viscious thing to do to anyone.
If that is really your photo, there is nothing wrong with the way you look. And if you are having these negative thoughts about yourself - I would suggest you seek help from a professional that can 1. help you get away from the toxic relationships in your life - the ones that are making you feel this way about yourself and 2. help you learn to really love yourself for who you are and learn to control that negative internal dialogue that you've been having with yourself.
Don't worry about what others say about you. Figure out how YOU feel about YOU. Then, work to change or simply accept what you don't like and also embrace what you do like and just keep growing in a positive direction from there.
Good luck!
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