I think that your feelings are wholly understandable fjtee.
My wife prefers her car to my 5 series and that suits us both, especially as I prefer an auto box to her stick shift.
People see cars in different lights and my preferences have changed over the years. I don't drool over the latest sports cars as I might have done in the past and look to comfort and practicality more- mine is a station wagon, hers is a convertible.
Mind you when we get a lovely summer's day, as has been known in the UK, I might do a bit of negotiating!
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