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Old 05-02-2023, 09:45 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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Thanks for all the advice everyone. I gave $100 towards one of the gifts on the registry.
IMO, that’s a generous gift. I was going to say $50-$100 range depending on your affordability.
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Old 05-02-2023, 10:56 AM
 
Location: USA
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Yes..you said he “could scale down” from $300 to $500. IMO, it didn’t seem like you were trying to be super helpful to the O.P. or answer for the O.P.’s situation & the registry.


I was helpful. All input helps form an answer to a question. Don't assume.
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Old 05-02-2023, 12:58 PM
 
Location: As of 2022….back to SoCal. OC this time!
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Thanks for all the advice everyone. I gave $100 towards one of the gifts on the registry.

The registry makes it super easy. It gets a lot harder when they aren’t registered or don’t have a wedding website.

Have fun at the wedding!
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Old 05-02-2023, 01:08 PM
 
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Thanks for all the advice everyone. I gave $100 towards one of the gifts on the registry.
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Old 05-03-2023, 07:57 PM
 
Location: SoCA to NC
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The average wedding gift is $100.00

Close friends and family scale up from there.

Generally if your budget doesn't warrant it or if you are a work colleague $50.00

Group gifts where you go in with others generally have each contributor contribute $25 and then you purchase one large gift.
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Old 05-18-2023, 04:58 PM
 
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I usually do $200 pp going to the wedding for friends. That is what I decided to do after reading a bunch of internet articles.

But do what works for your budget and what you want to do (no obligation). I told my son to just do $100 for a close friend of his as he is just starting out. And I actually gave him the money for that too.
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Old 07-01-2023, 03:49 PM
 
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Honestly, it's all relative and depends on the situation. If a millionaire, who can easily spend $10,000 on designer shopping and buy random things, attends your wedding and gives a $100 gift, that's perfectly fine. $100 is practically nothing to this person, he could use it as toilet paper. On the other hand, if someone has a low income, works 12-hour shifts, and barely makes ends meet, a $100 gift is a significant gesture. Same gift, but different perspectives. I suppose it's important to be generous and understand that the true value of a gift isn't just its face value. It's about what it means to you and the person receiving it. Best of luck with that!
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Old 07-27-2023, 06:44 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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I'm going to a wedding reception next weekend. The groom invited me and like ten others from our sports league. It's been awhile (pre-covid) since I went to a wedding. What is the appropriate gift amount ranges these days?

I'm planning on buying something on the registry this week (honeymoon options)

My relationship to the groom- Friends. Only known the groom for less than a year. We're in a league together that meets almost every other week. The wedding reception is local and casual dressy. It's at a brewery with a BBQ type of menu for dinner.

How long you've known the person & to what capacity really determines $ amount in my book. I'd say about $30-40 ios good enough.

I gave my female cousin who got married $50. Yes, I could have done $100, but I don't have extra money these days. We were never that close & had just started staying in touch regularly via phone on a monthly basis for the about the last 5 yrs in which it's on-the-surface-talk to catch up w/ our lives...nothing deep. We've only seen each other in-person once in the last 10+ yrs.
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