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I can understand some annoyance at the adult meal but....this....
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...and getting nothing in return..
Guests are not invited with the expectation of receiving a gift. Of any amount. Your guests are invited because they mean something to you and you want to share this important event and your happiness with them.
We are offering kids meals for any kids under 12 ... she chose the adult meals for her youngest which are about 4 times the price of the kids meal. I don't see why a 4 year old needs to eat a $160 plate of fish.
Do you have a fish option for kids? If so, just change it to the kid's meal.
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Originally Posted by Jdawg8181
I'm just annoying b/c we are essentially paying for 5 people and getting nothing in return.
You're right about some things, you're wrong about others. Nothing brings out family drama like weddings and funerals.
No there is no option for kids fish. Her kids are the only kids coming .. we picked the kids meals because that is what she initially told us they would want. Then when they RSVP'd they apparently chose the adult meal options ... as a guest you don't get to make demands.
No there is no option for kids fish. Her kids are the only kids coming .. we picked the kids meals because that is what she initially told us they would want. Then when they RSVP'd they apparently chose the adult meal options ... as a guest you don't get to make demands.
Then you should just change it to the kids meal, and don't mention it.
It is wrong to expect a gift in return for an invite.
However, 4 year olds should get a kids meal & let her know it, does she want the kids to get an adult meal, so she can eat it? Most 4 year olds would far prefer a kids meal anyhow. If your fiance is agreeable, then enforce the spouses & s.o. rule. But no point in making a fuss over one plate of food.
Maybe she's a little tacky, but this is your fiance's sister. Her gift to you is her and her children's attendance at a momentous occasion intended to bring loved ones together to celebrate the creation of a new family.
Just tell her that there is no option for the kids under 12 - the option is for adults. The kids get kids meals.
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