30 and considering moving to SLC - feedback appreciated

[NearFantastica]

Originally Posted by kavm

Such a sexist and uninformed post and poster! I can understand the hell meeting women; it'd be hell for any woman meeting the such sexist men. That you consider yourself sufficiently informed about the 'women outside the coastal cities' and dismiss them is illuminating about your level of intelligence.

Care to explain how my post was sexist? Not once did I denigrate women as a whole in my post, I was talking specifically about the harsh and limited dating pool that exists for men outside of urban coastal centers. Given that most people reside in cities, it's common knowledge that dating will be tougher in rural areas due to low population and cultural factors.

Originally Posted by kavm

I am relieved you are in Lehi and not in Salt Lake City. Personally, I'd not be caught dead in Lehi.

I don't live in Utah, just giving OP advice and sharing my personal experiences.

[kavm]

Originally Posted by NearFantastica

Outside of coastal cities, desperate single mothers and women married young/out of high school seems to be the norm…

OK. Not sexist but classifying (denigrating) a large swath of women who live outside the coastal cities as desperate single mothers and women married young/out of high school is pejorative in the extreme.

[NearFantastica]

Originally Posted by kavm

OK. Not sexist but classifying (denigrating) a large swath of women who live outside the coastal cities as desperate single mothers and women married young/out of high school is pejorative in the extreme.

Just speaking the facts, in no way meant to insult anyone. The single female population in middle america does indeed skew towards single motherhood, or women married young due to cultural/religious background. Anyways, there's a reason people flock to highly populated urban coastal cities to improve their dating pool and not to more rural areas with less people.

[kavm]

You must have some alternate definition of facts. The demographics are not all that different.

https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tan...ies-in-the-u-s

If you have facts (that you claim to speak of), do share the source. Otherwise, it is just an uninformed pejorative view of those living in the middle America. And, please do not try to support your statement based upon personal observations - as you are generalizing over demographic consisting of about 50-100 million.

[sg8910]

OP never mentioned dating, this whole thread is concerning dating.
I am wondering the same for myself, for single woman in 30s, are social outdoor opportunties good in SLC and which suburbs might be younger and support active fit lifestyle with some social tihngs to do, ie restaurants,arts, breweries

thanks