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Old 09-29-2019, 10:40 AM
 
Location: Sebastian, Florida
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I’m missing the sense of adventure I had when I was younger, working on a cruise ship and then for a major airline as a flight attendant. Between my brain damaged husband, two cats and my physical limitations, it’s harder to be spontaneous or travel easily.
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Old 09-29-2019, 04:28 PM
 
Location: Central NY
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"What is missing in your life and what can you do about it? "
Pretty sure this is intended for people to write about what they wish they had and how could they get it.

I thought about this and a different thing occurred to me.
What is missing from my life? Fear. Worry. Sadness, and much more. Being cheated on. Being used.

There is no way I would care to have any of that back.

Without it, I'm doing just fine.
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Old 09-29-2019, 05:09 PM
 
Location: Columbia SC
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NYgal brought up an interesting perspective. Other than getting old and my wife passing 4 years ago, I am much better off then when I was younger. One hell of a lot less stress especially concerning money, employment, etc.

Fortunately I got to do many things in life and my bucket list was drained with the exception of becoming The Benevolent Dictator of the United States........LOL
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Old 09-29-2019, 05:19 PM
 
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NYgal brought up an interesting perspective. Other than getting old and my wife passing 4 years ago, I am much better off then when I was younger. One hell of a lot less stress especially concerning money, employment, etc.

Fortunately I got to do many things in life and my bucket list was drained with the exception of becoming The Benevolent Dictator of the United States........LOL
I am also lucky that i got to do so many interesting things when i was younger. Went to all sorts of places.

Sometimes i feel weird just wanting to relax and stay at home when i see older folks wanting to go, see, and do things.

But then i realize, they didn't get to do this when they were younger.
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Old 09-30-2019, 06:42 PM
 
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Sadly, that's a bargain.

According to the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services:
  • TOTAL healthcare consumption in the USA was about $3.5 trillion in 2017.
  • There were about 326 million people in the USA in 2017.

Do the math.

Divide $3.5 trillion by 326 million people. We consumed over $10,700 in health care products and services for every man, woman and child in the country in 2017. (Other sources place the estimate at above $11,000 per person).

That hypothetical retired couple you reference are not paying their share.

Their share of consumption in 2017 was (2 people x $10,739 per person)/(12 months per year) = $1790 per month.

When that retired couple pays only $500 +/- per month, they are not carrying their own weight. Someone else is picking up the extra tab to the tune of about $1790 - $500 = $1290 per month.

Who is it who is picking up the tab? Look around. It is the rest of us -- those of us who pay MORE than $1790 per month for a couple.

All of the calls for "Single Payer" in reality are calls for "Someone Else Pay For Me."
Not really. US residents wonder why other nations pay so much smaller a percentage of their GDP for medical services.https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List...ure_per_capita is there a good reason the US should spend twice as much as neighboring Canada?

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