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Old 12-16-2012, 09:16 AM
 
Location: In the city
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Ladies:

What are *YOUR* top ten for the "perfect" (on paper) man? Turnabout is fair play...
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Old 12-16-2012, 09:26 AM
 
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1. Attractive (at least an 8 out of 10 and 6' tall)
2. Asexual
3. Wealthy
4. High Status
5. Confident
6. Doesn't have a misogynistic, bitter, or resentful attitude towards gals (women don't want nice guys, women want to be used and abused, women don't know what they want/what women say and what women do are totally different...as if the latter two doesn't equally apply to men as well)
7. Doesn't adhere to patriarchal gender roles (men lead the household, men wear the pants, feminine as weak/submissive/subservient)
8. Panders to my desires
9. Loves to spend money on me
10. Gives me the other half of his money that isn't spent on me
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Old 12-16-2012, 09:32 AM
 
Location: In the city
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1. Dependable
2. Kind-- nice to kids, animals, the elderly, etc.
3. Has his own money
4. Good hair (color unimportant)
5. Broad shoulders
6. Muscular legs
7. Makes decisions easily
8. Good listener
9. Lacks addictive behaviors
10. Doesn't enjoy complaining about everything
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Old 12-16-2012, 09:34 AM
 
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Originally Posted by udolipixie View Post
1. Attractive (at least an 8 out of 10 and 6' tall)
2. Asexual
3. Wealthy
4. High Status
5. Confident
6. Doesn't have a misogynistic, bitter, or resentful attitude towards gals (women don't want nice guys, women want to be used and abused, women don't know what they want/what women say and what women do are totally different...as if the latter two doesn't equally apply to men as well)
7. Doesn't adhere to patriarchal gender roles (men lead the household, men wear the pants, feminine as weak/submissive/subservient)
8. Panders to my desires
9. Loves to spend money on me
10. Gives me the other half of his money that isn't spent on me
I score a one out of ten. one!
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Old 12-16-2012, 09:51 AM
 
Location: Man with a tan hat
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I can give you a list, as a gay man...

1. Works out
2. My height or taller (6 feet)
3. Nice teeth--no serious dental issues
4. Has a decent income
5. Smart
6. Creative
7. No ex drama
8. Striking eyes
9. Polite-- good manners
10. Fun to be around-- not a downer
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Old 12-16-2012, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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I believe OP started this thread in response to the one posted the "perfect woman"....

but now I find THAT thread was STARTED BY A WOMAN, which is
extra-bad... ... guys responses to that thread did NOT agree with "the list".

Nothing like your own sex perpetuating the idea that women should/must be ideal.










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Ladies:

What are *YOUR* top ten for the "perfect" (on paper) man? Turnabout is fair play...
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Old 12-16-2012, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Man with a tan hat
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Originally Posted by greatblueheron View Post
I believe OP started this thread in response to the one posted the "perfect woman"....

but now I find THAT thread was STARTED BY A WOMAN, which is
extra-bad... ... guys responses to that thread did NOT agree with "the list".

Nothing like your own sex perpetuating the idea that women should/must be ideal.

Lighten up.
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Old 12-16-2012, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Yuma, Az
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Ladies:

What are *YOUR* top ten for the "perfect" (on paper) man? Turnabout is fair play...
1. Personable
2. Sense of humor
3. Good physical condition
4. Reasonably attractive
5. Listens to me when I speak (or at least is good at acting like he is listening)
6. Open-minded
7. Performs various chores when asked (attending my workplace functions, putting clothes in the washer, stopping at the grocery store upon request, etc.)
8. Romantic at key times.
9. Can think logically and can express it discreetly... I stress discreetly
10. Is honest right down to correcting inaccurate restaurant bills that would have been in his favor
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Old 12-16-2012, 10:42 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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1. Personable
2. Sense of humor
3. Good physical condition
4. Reasonably attractive
5. Listens to me when I speak (or at least is good at acting like he is listening)
6. Open-minded
7. Performs various chores when asked (attending my workplace functions, putting clothes in the washer, stopping at the grocery store upon request, etc.)
8. Romantic at key times.
9. Can think logically and can express it discreetly... I stress discreetly
10. Is honest right down to correcting inaccurate restaurant bills that would have been in his favor
Discreetly? Discreetly logical? Care to expand on that a bit.
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Old 12-16-2012, 10:44 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Originally Posted by KatieGal View Post
1. Personable
2. Sense of humor
3. Good physical condition
4. Reasonably attractive
5. Listens to me when I speak (or at least is good at acting like he is listening)
6. Open-minded
7. Performs various chores when asked (attending my workplace functions, putting clothes in the washer, stopping at the grocery store upon request, etc.)
8. Romantic at key times.
9. Can think logically and can express it discreetly... I stress discreetly
10. Is honest right down to correcting inaccurate restaurant bills that would have been in his favor
LOL, you don't want a man, you want a robot.
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