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OK, we've done a lot of talking about different kinds of people here so let's tell the kinds of things that turn you on in the people you come to like and the things that turn you off from people.
Things That Turn Me On:
Honesty
Kindness and Compassion
Being True to What You Believe
Soulful Eyes
Great Smile
people that overuse internet acronyms especially LMAO ~ It drives me nuts and seems a bit uncouth. LOL is a pain too, but at least it isn't uncouth. I guess I should list impatience in myself as one of my turn offs.
Dependability
Even tempered
Sense of humor - preferably a whacked sense of humor
Cons (don't laugh...)
Poor spelling and punctuation and grammar (I know, I know...not just being lazy about it or slipping into slang, I'm talking not trying your best when it is important.)
Indecision
Someone allowing themselves to be used...badly...when they know better
Chronic tardiness
Most qualities have already been mentioned. But here's mine.
Turn ons;
-people who think before they speak.
-people who listen and try to understand.
-people who express opinions, and can elaborate.
-showing maturity in deed and thought.
-people who have curiosity about many things.
-I could list more turn ons, but they would be X rated.
Turn offs:
-fanatics (sports, religion, politics, social issues)
-people who believe raising the volume of an discussion will prove them right.
-liars, especially the kind, when caught, try to twist their story in a different way, or become hostile.
-people who say things and later deny having said it.
-people who litter chronically.
-people who busy themselves with trivia and gossip.
-people who hang on to grudges (over petty things) for years.
[quote=Lisa_from_Debary;943194]Turns offs
Whining, complaining, liars, laziness, men with their umbilical cord still attached, mysoginists, men who learn how to make love from porn.
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This made me laugh.
On:
music
chocolate
dancing
intelligence
loyalty
good hygeine
sense of humor
animal lovers
some tattoos
people that can express themselves artistically and don't care what others think
my SO
men that call their grandma - love you!
Off:
litterbugs
racists
liars
pretentious people
dirty nails and bad breath
talking with mouth full
judgemental
nose pickers in their cars - stop that people! it's disgusting and yes people can see you
turn ons:
the great people of this country that put the benefit of their fellow citizens ahead of their personal lives. Soldiers, police, fire and paramedics, doctors and nurses, educators etc. Thank you folks, we couldn't do it without you!
turn offs:
grouchy and obnoxious dweebs that think the whole world owes them.
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