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Old 03-18-2024, 11:39 AM
 
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Thanks, just stressed about his throat. I got involved as this guy messaged a woman in our group and she contacted me so I had to warn him not to send solicited messages. The problem is he expects me and my boyfriend to teach him how to be social which he even said this and as you have said we are not qualified. I don't have time to babysit dysfunctional people.
You are making it your business to babysit dysfunctional people and to share that with the world. An adult woman can handle an out of line text.
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Old 03-18-2024, 12:06 PM
 
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My boyfriend was going to have a cigarette and this ex colleague put both of his hands around my boyfriend's neck...
WTH? I would have punched him in the nose.
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Old 03-18-2024, 05:29 PM
 
Location: In the Pearl of the Purchase, Ky
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And, I guess, nobody bothered to call the police? Duh!
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Old 03-19-2024, 04:29 AM
 
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What kind of social group is this, exactly?
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Old 03-19-2024, 07:20 AM
 
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What kind of social group is this, exactly?
It is supposed to be a friendship social group to make new friends. Though this incident seems it is an anti social group.
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Old 03-19-2024, 07:26 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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That's really bizarre behavior. I think it's right that he was told that's unacceptable behavior and that's why the friendship is done.

I suspect that your boyfriend's throat is not permanently damaged and just needs time to heal.
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Old 03-19-2024, 08:20 AM
 
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The problem is he expects me and my boyfriend to teach him how to be social which he even said this and as you have said we are not qualified. I don't have time to babysit dysfunctional people.
No, he doesn't. He's gaslighting! He is making you responsible for his assault. It's to prevent you from going to the police.

Guarantee, it's not his first assault.
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Old 03-19-2024, 08:58 AM
 
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Thanks, just stressed about his throat. I got involved as this guy messaged a woman in our group and she contacted me so I had to warn him not to send solicited messages. The problem is he expects me and my boyfriend to teach him how to be social which he even said this and as you have said we are not qualified. I don't have time to babysit dysfunctional people.
I used to be involved in training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu when younger. I cannot tell you the number of times I was choked, to the point my throat would be sore, hard to swallow, and could barely speak. Sometimes this would last a week or more. But it always went away. He is fine. He just needs to heal. The guy strangled him pretty good, so you may want to consider filing charges.
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Old 03-19-2024, 09:22 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque
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He could have killed him. This guy told me before my boyfriend told me that he did it. I told him to never do that again and not to do that to others. How else will the thicko understand.

I am surprised 2 people think it was ok what he did.
The "thicko" will not listen to you, in fact probably thinks you are funny to think you can tell him what to do. Just get him out of your life and your contact list.
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Old 03-19-2024, 12:47 PM
 
Location: SCW, AZ
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Sorry to hear but your bf is a simp, stop trying to candycoat him as a "nice guy".
I am a nice guy and am fairly easygoing but I doubt anyone would get physical with me that way.
If some dumb soul actually assaulted me, there'd be no need to get the cops involved!
Then again, this sickeningly woke society turned most men under 35 males into beta males so I am not too surprised.
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