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I have another gay friend who I see here and there. He texted me asking if I wanted to hang out one particular weekend. I told him I couldn’t as I would be in San Francisco. He then responded “Oh I didn’t know you had someone there.” I was like “Naw I’m going for work but seeing friends while I’m there.”
Fast forward to a week later when I got back from SF. He texted me “So who is it that you have in SF?” I was like “I told you I went for work.”
We then met up a week after that to catch up over some drinks. He then said again to me “I didn’t know you had someone in SF.” I was like dude how many times do I have to tell you I don’t? I found it odd he kept asking and referring to that.
He then proceeded to ask me if I hooked up in SF which I told him yes, I did twice, and then he started talking about all the guys he’s been sleeping with, almost like it was a pissing contest?
We understand that your body is a popular amusement park open to all, and talking about it brings you great joy, but let's be real here.
It's hard for most of us to relate to your "problems" because most of us tend to be private, monogamous and unwilling to have penetrative sex with total strangers. Therefore we are not likely to know the answer to your question. Isn't there some gay advice forum you could go to where people would be more impressed with your achievements?
We understand that your body is a popular amusement park open to all, and talking about it brings you great joy, but let's be real here.
It's hard for most of us to relate to your "problems" because most of us tend to be private, monogamous and unwilling to have penetrative sex with total strangers. Therefore we are not likely to know the answer to your question. Isn't there some gay advice forum you could go to where people would be more impressed with your achievements?
Sounds like a normal guy who has romantic thoughts about you and is slightly jealous and trying to get your attention by inappropriate teasing.
Yeah, I think what threw me off was how pointed the question was. Most people would ask "What are you going to DC for?"
But the assumption that I was going to DC because I have someone there, just seems very presumptuous and kind of out of nowhere? It's a strange way to frame it on his behalf.
He then proceeded to ask me if I hooked up in SF which I told him yes, I did twice, and then he started talking about all the guys he’s been sleeping with, almost like it was a pissing contest?
Is it me or is this behavior weird?
After all this whining that he seems presumptuous and overly curious about your travels, you turn around and sort of confirmed his prurient curiosity. Why??? That wasn't his business was it? Any fallout from that is on you OP.
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After all this whining that he seems presumptuous and overly curious about your travels, you turn around and sort of confirmed his prurient curiosity. Why??? That wasn't his business was it? Any fallout from that is on you OP.
