I am a very content very single female who never ever could get with the whole marriage thing. I tend to be very free-spirited and very open-minded. I am not a possessive person nor do I get jealous. I have always felt that if you have to fight for someone's attention or love, then they were never meant to be for you. I do miss never having had children, though now that I am in my forties, not having them is definitely a plus in this stage of my life! I have a strong sense of loyalty, yet the whole commitment thing makes me nervous. I think having friends with benefits is great; realistically though, if the sex is super good and the friend is super cool to hang out with, do things with, talk with, it's human nature to start to romanticize about them (falling in love is a definite possibility). And speaking of love, how can anyone deny what an outrageously great, exciting, hungry for their sex, touch, kiss, etc.
feeling love gives you? I'm not denying it!
Friends with benefits is a great concept, but if you meet that one friend who does all those things for you, then how can you not feel the pain love brings too?
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Friends with benefits
This is a group for people who have been in a "freinds with benefits" situation or people who would like to be in that type of relationship. Come share your experiences, your thoughts, your views. All opinions are welcome as long as you don't come by to pass judgement on the group members