Too many men and not enough women living in the Fort Myers/Cape Coral area. (Tampa: restaurants, stats)

[wavelength11]

People, myself included, who go to bars, nightclubs, concerts, music events, and restaurants in Fort Myers, Cape Coral, and all surrounding areas are noticing the same thing all around. More men than women at all places and at all events, with men outnumbering the women by as much as 7 to 1 in many cases. And it really especially messes up especially the dating scene for single men and leaves many single men out.

[lluvia]

Originally Posted by wavelength11

People, myself included, who go to bars, nightclubs, concerts, music events, and restaurants in Fort Myers, Cape Coral, and all surrounding areas are noticing the same thing all around. More men than women at all places and at all events, with men outnumbering the women by as much as 7 to 1 in many cases. And it really especially messes up especially the dating scene for single men and leaves many single men out.

Men and women kinda blend in these days and it's difficult to ascertain the sex without a junk check or maybe you're one step ahead of me & you've been doing that already.

[kyle19125]

Originally Posted by lluvia

Men and women kinda blend in these days and it's difficult to ascertain the sex without a junk check or maybe you're one step ahead of me & you've been doing that already.

That's extreme and sounds at the very least like a routine eye exam is in order for you.

[dewart]

Originally Posted by wavelength11

People, myself included, who go to bars, nightclubs, concerts, music events, and restaurants in Fort Myers, Cape Coral, and all surrounding areas are noticing the same thing all around. More men than women at all places and at all events, with men outnumbering the women by as much as 7 to 1 in many cases. And it really especially messes up especially the dating scene for single men and leaves many single men out.

As of 2022, the total population of the United States of America is 71% men and 29% women. Sorry man, but it's nationwide. More than half of all American men are terminally single unless they move to another country.

[MOforthewin]

Originally Posted by wavelength11

People, myself included, who go to bars, nightclubs, concerts, music events, and restaurants in Fort Myers, Cape Coral, and all surrounding areas are noticing the same thing all around. More men than women at all places and at all events, with men outnumbering the women by as much as 7 to 1 in many cases. And it really especially messes up especially the dating scene for single men and leaves many single men out.

I live in swfl too and notice this! I'm 40, so like women my age or younger. Not a lot of single hot women 40 and under around here. Lots of older people too old for me.

Online dating sites since covid hit have got worse too! 90 percent of the women on there are fat, tatted or just plain unattractive. Before covid hit the online sites, yea sucked but a lot more decent women were on them. Waste of time and money now. Mostly trash on them irl I wouldn't even look at.

I'm not trying to sound harsh or mean, but I dont see many attractive women around here. Orlando and Tampa seems to be better. I'm from St. Louis and much more decent younger women up there. Many more out of shape people in this area.

[whatever]

Originally Posted by dewart

As of 2022, the total population of the United States of America is 71% men and 29% women. Sorry man, but it's nationwide. More than half of all American men are terminally single unless they move to another country.

If you have sources for that you might want to ditch them.

A quick fact check has you off by a wide margin in US stats, Florida stats and in single men/single women in both.

That said, a lot of places seemed like a sausage fest years ago when I was single in Broward lol

[Above Average Bear]

Whenever I get notifications for Match.com for meetups in Sarasota there are always more women going to these events than men.

[isuzu]

Originally Posted by MOforthewin

Online dating sites since covid hit have got worse too! 90 percent of the women on there are fat, tatted or just plain unattractive. Before covid hit the online sites, yea sucked but a lot more decent women were on them. Waste of time and money now. Mostly trash on them irl I wouldn't even look at.

I've noticed that, too. It's horrible. I've seen women on those online dating sites in Southwest Florida that are easily in excess of 400 pounds and that look like they belong in Wisconsin's Northwoods area. North Slope Borough, Alaska, even, which is easily the most obese region in the country, easily a lot worse than Mississippi.

North Slope Borough, Alaska is a frigid cold region, where snow occurs all year round, where mid summer high temperatures get no warmer than about low to mid 40s Fahrenheit, and winter temperatures can get as cold as the -150s Fahrenheit. Far too cold for swimming, bicycle riding, walking jogging, apple trees won't even grow that far north, it's pretty much all tundra. The year-round cold in North Slope Borough, Alaska is prohibitive to being outdoors except for business reasons.

Wisconsin's Northwoods area is another region of extreme widespread obesity. The winters there are long, cold, and brutal, there are very few opportunities for outdoor exercise even in summer as there are no bicycle trails that far north.

A tropical climate is absolutely no place for sedentary lifestyles, lack of exercise, and eating foods that are nothing but too much unhealthy fat and cholesterol. I personally go bike riding all year round, and yet it's disappointing that there are people in Southwest Florida staying indoors like it's 15 degrees outside with a roaring blizzard. Like they forget that there are beaches in Florida, and swimming is a great way to cool off on a hot day. There is such a thing as too cold to go swimming, but there is no such thing as too hot for swimming.

I'm not trying to sound harsh or mean, but I dont see many attractive women around here. Orlando and Tampa seems to be better. I'm from St. Louis and much more decent younger women up there. Many more out of shape people in this area.

It's very disappointing. Southwest Florida has a tropical climate. There are many miles of beaches along Estero Island, Sanibel Island, and other places where anyone can go swimming even during mid summer where the temperature rarely ever gets any hotter than about the low 90s, even as places like Atlanta, Chicago, St. Louis, Dallas, Nashville, Philadelphia, and Oklahoma City can get as hot as the mid 100s to even 110s.

[MOforthewin]

Originally Posted by isuzu

I've noticed that, too. It's horrible. I've seen women on those online dating sites in Southwest Florida that are easily in excess of 400 pounds and that look like they belong in Wisconsin's Northwoods area. North Slope Borough, Alaska, even, which is easily the most obese region in the country, easily a lot worse than Mississippi.

North Slope Borough, Alaska is a frigid cold region, where snow occurs all year round, where mid summer high temperatures get no warmer than about low to mid 40s Fahrenheit, and winter temperatures can get as cold as the -150s Fahrenheit. Far too cold for swimming, bicycle riding, walking jogging, apple trees won't even grow that far north, it's pretty much all tundra. The year-round cold in North Slope Borough, Alaska is prohibitive to being outdoors except for business reasons.

Wisconsin's Northwoods area is another region of extreme widespread obesity. The winters there are long, cold, and brutal, there are very few opportunities for outdoor exercise even in summer as there are no bicycle trails that far north.

A tropical climate is absolutely no place for sedentary lifestyles, lack of exercise, and eating foods that are nothing but too much unhealthy fat and cholesterol. I personally go bike riding all year round, and yet it's disappointing that there are people in Southwest Florida staying indoors like it's 15 degrees outside with a roaring blizzard. Like they forget that there are beaches in Florida, and swimming is a great way to cool off on a hot day. There is such a thing as too cold to go swimming, but there is no such thing as too hot for swimming.



It's very disappointing. Southwest Florida has a tropical climate. There are many miles of beaches along Estero Island, Sanibel Island, and other places where anyone can go swimming even during mid summer where the temperature rarely ever gets any hotter than about the low 90s, even as places like Atlanta, Chicago, St. Louis, Dallas, Nashville, Philadelphia, and Oklahoma City can get as hot as the mid 100s to even 110s.

Yep. Except at least places like Nashville, St. Louis, and even Oklahoma City you still get days in the summer where there will be a cool front and the high only reaches 84 degrees. In St. Louis you get a few of those days in July. Low 65, high around 84. Nice relief.

Down here I think it's the heat causes people to be lazy. Sit in the AC eat all day and like to drink a lot. Still doesn't explain the trashy people who are not fat though but just trashy in general.

Also, around here it's all greasy tourist trap type foods or chain places. You know, the type of foods you eat while on vacation.

It's one thing to be old and fat, but people in their 40s and 30s either overweight, or tatted up around here.

[MOforthewin]

Originally Posted by wavelength11

People, myself included, who go to bars, nightclubs, concerts, music events, and restaurants in Fort Myers, Cape Coral, and all surrounding areas are noticing the same thing all around. More men than women at all places and at all events, with men outnumbering the women by as much as 7 to 1 in many cases. And it really especially messes up especially the dating scene for single men and leaves many single men out.

I'm 40. In addition, MOST of the women are either too old for me, or are not attractive at all.

I mean these days it seems like only 10 percent of single women I find attractive, if at that.