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Me (M22) and my girlfriend (F21) haven’t had sex in two weeks and I don’t know why. Two weeks ago she was very horny, like she always was. But all of a sudden, she is not anymore. We have been together for 8 months, and we started having sex at the 4th month. But now, we don’t have sex anymore
She lives with her parents and I live with my parents. We only have the opportunity to have sex three times a week, at her place, since my parents are more strict. But two weeks ago, her mom found the box of condoms in her room. And ever since, she says her mom is looking everywhere, and looking sus. We tried having sex once after that, and stopped midway because she was paranoid with her mom walking in the room. She then told me we would need to wait a while to have sex in her place, because of her mom. She also mentioned that she hasn’t felt horny lately, and in the past she went on three months without having sex.
Yesterday, I tried initiating sex, but without success. She said we couldn’t because of her mom, and because she just started her period. She doesn’t like period sex.
The thing is, in the past, even tho we would not have sex on a certain day, she would still act horny, touch my crotch, make sexual comments. And ever since her mom found the condoms, everything stopped. I wonder if that was the only reason. Or is she not attracted to me anymore? Or do I suck at sex?
TLDR: Me and my girlfriend have not had sex in two weeks, ever since her mom found the box of condoms, but she has also acted less sexual around me. What can I do?
Could be she’s still not feeling well mentally (referencing your prior thread). Could be she’s feeling a certain way since her mom knows y’all are having sex (is premarital sex frowned upon?)
How about you just remove the expectation of sex, continue to date her, and see how it goes.
You two are both adults. Man up and get your own place. Screwing at her moms house is disrespectful anyway. Stressing out about a mom finding condoms is something people who are 15y/o worry about. If you can't afford your own place you probably can't afford a kid either if she happened to get pregnant. Try taking her somewhere nice and getting a hotel room somewhere. Women tend to want to be with men that can provide for themselves, as well as them. You don't sound like you fall into that category.
My guess is that she's still freaked out over her mom... I'm just wondering why a parent would care about their grown child having sex in their home?
Maybe the grown child isn't responsible and Mom doesn't want to be supporting a baby. Seeing as these are both adults they need to move out to places of their own.
If the parents are having an issue with sex in their house, then get a place of your own.
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