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I have seen him interact with other female clients and he did not look them up and down like that. He's actually very professional, very good at his work etc. He may not have had a mutual attraction to those ladies though. (to be fair)
Excuse me but he is not very professional if he is looking a client up and down and ogling their breasts. That is the opposite of being professional.
I met an older guy and we are very attracted to each other. He is 61.
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We smile really big at each other and (it was a little much) but I caught him looking at my chest and looking me up and down when I was saying good bye. It felt like he was going to hug me or something.
Is this how you have determined an attraction i.e. he ‘looks you up and down’ (in a literal sense) and appears as though he is going to inappropriately hug you? Are you attracted to impulsivity and social inadequacy?
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Excuse me but he is not very professional if he is looking a client up and down and ogling their breasts. That is the opposite of being professional.
Is this how you have determined an attraction i.e. he ‘looks you up and down’ (in a literal sense) and appears as though he is going to inappropriately hug you? Are you attracted to impulsivity and social inadequacy?
Exactly, he sounds 16 - not 61.
I've found that sometimes at around this age a kind of reversal takes place.
When he's seventy five he'll be around twelve, chasing after his nurses and honking their chests.
No don't ask the boss out. That is nothing but a hornet's nest that does not need to be stirred.
As for looking you up and down, I check out women all the time, it doesn't mean I want to ask them out. I appreciate an attractive female body. Seems normal to me.
No don't ask the boss out. That is nothing but a hornet's nest that does not need to be stirred.
As for looking you up and down, I check out women all the time, it doesn't mean I want to ask them out. I appreciate an attractive female body. Seems normal to me.
I hope you don't do it with obvious elevator eyes lingering on their bosom.
I've found that sometimes at around this age a kind of reversal takes place.
When he's seventy five he'll be around twelve, chasing after his nurses and honking their chests.
How have you found this to be the case? Do you know a 75 year-old-man who is honking your chest, lol? Folks aren’t likely to become immature or inappropriate if they haven’t been all along. Perhaps they simply feel more able to get away with it at that age and/or have developed some sort of cognitive impairment. That said, despite one’s age, many have no problem expressing something in poor taste; they think they’re being ‘honest’ or funny sans consideration for how it impacts them socially or affects other persons. It’s indicative of a low social IQ.
Either way, it’s a huge red flag; ogling is not a sign of healthy attraction, although the OP apparently thinks it worthy enough to pursue.
Excuse me but he is not very professional if he is looking a client up and down and ogling their breasts. That is the opposite of being professional.
yeah, I second this. It is very inappropriate.
However, if you still want to go ahead and ask him out, I would wait until the business with him is finished and then pretty much on your way out, let him know that if he is every available for dinner to hit you up.
Excuse me but he is not very professional if he is looking a client up and down and ogling their breasts. That is the opposite of being professional.
I understand that perspective. That was after prior interaction. We had 6 or 7 meetings leading up to this, 2 prior to this we had a moment of smiling at each other where it was obvious we found each other very attractive. Prior to this, he is the very definition of professional, going above and beyond to assist anyone who is a client to ensure they really understand what is happening and are getting value for what he is being paid for his service. He really cares and could charge a whole lot more. He has a reputation of being firm when needed and very thorough. He's entitled to meet a woman and get together with her (hopefully me) just like any other working individual.
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