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If you want the benefits, go for it and break up as soon as you start dating other people. If you're going to have any emotional investment, it's not going to work because she wants the benefits but expects you to stay exclusive. Do you think she is going to stay exclusive? Even if she actually would, you can do better.
Yea I think she would stay exclusive.
She said she is working on getting over the betrayal of getting cheated on in her last relationship.
I am emotional invested I want her to be my gf agian.
I love her also.
Why do you think I can do better?
Well if I'm exclusive, doesn't that mean we are friends who have sex anyways? Just no title?
Do you think her reasons are valid?
No her excuses are not valid. If some girl I was seeing told me she wasn't yet over her ex, and needed some time to sort through it, I'd immediately begin looking for someone else.
If she offered to be FWB, I may or may not accept. If she told me she wanted to be "exclusive FWB", I'd tell her that must be a joke, such a thing does not exist.
If she then went on saying she loves me etc (like you said she did), I'd probably end everything right then because she's crazy.
She would like us to continue speaking to each other and having sex.
She also said she would like us to stay exclusive.
She wants the freedom of hanging out with her friends whenever guy and girl.
She wants to eat her cake and have it too.
If she wants to stay friends and screw, great, but you get to do the same with other women.
yea, im going to end it today. I can't be friends with benefits. I have tried everything to mend this relationship.
I deserve someone that actually wants to be with me.
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