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I think you enjoy the benefits, but you're letting your emotions get in the way. Enjoy the benefits and block on social media if it's bothering you so much. If you can't handle even that, then look for fun elsewhere with someone else maybe you can be more intimate with. Because this isn't that guy, as much as you may want it to be.
I dated this man for 3 months it’s was intense. We both had deep feelings for each other it ended mutually do to incompatibility . Anyways we went no contact for a month. I got curious and went to his social media account and on accident viewed his social media story. He texted me right after and asked “if I was lurking” ? I responded with “why”, he said “because it said you viewed my story. I responded saying “once”. He then asked me “if I was thinking about him because he randomly thinks of me” . I then asked him if he missed me and still had feelings for me he said yes.
He then asked me and I responded saying “yes as well” he said he was surprised. He told me he still had the pictures of in his phone when I asked. He then asked me a week later if I worked the next day ? He knows where I work and my job is a shopping store but there’s another location other than mine. “So responded saying yea I do work tomorrow”. He asked me what time, because he wanted to go in my store to grab some clothes. then told him “if you want to see me just say that, so yea or no”. He responded saying “not while you’re at work”.
I was confused why he asked me that? It made it seem like he wanted to come in my store but avoid me ? If that is the case then he could go to another location right ?
For him to contact you after the "social media light stalking" lol, means that he was probably interested in reconnecting but it seems like he may have changed his mind midway through. Its hard to know what it was that may have changed his mind without knowing all of the details of why it didnt work out, but usually people are reminded why it didnt work out in the first place pretty soon --after retrying a relationship that failed.
You started the entire thing by viewing his story. You asked him if he misses you and still has feelings for you, which are very personal probing questions, and he said yes. Now that you have re-connected he is acting on those feelings. If anything you are the one playing him by tugging at his heart strings.
If you 2 are incompatible that won't change. Stop this now.
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OP, your grandmother would tell you he's only using you for sex. In most other cases, this is usually harder to see because the guy puts on SOME effort to be flattering, to act interested in more in a relationship, is charming, etc.
But for zero effort on his part, and while basically being a jerk, you are willing to meet up with him.
You need to get out of this. It's making you feel worse than you realize.
OP, your grandmother would tell you he's only using you for sex. In most other cases, this is usually harder to see because the guy puts on SOME effort to be flattering, to act interested in more in a relationship, is charming, etc.
But for zero effort on his part, and while basically being a jerk, you are willing to meet up with him.
You need to get out of this. It's making you feel worse than you realize.
Yes I agree and for him to still want to be on my social media viewing all my stories is crazy
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