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Originally Posted by Bootsamillion
Sometimes life doesn't seem fair, and a lot of the time, we don't get the answers we think we so desparately need. Some people don't need closure, you obviously do. With him rejecting you in such a way, it frustrates you because you don't understand.
See if you can look at things a little differently. Here you have a guy that you "thought" was someone special, you believed that you may have a future with him and you were happy. As it turns out though, you got hooked up with an immature jerk that doesn't have the balls to talk to you in person, so he hides behind his phone and his profiles online.
He isn't what you thought he was. He never will be, and the best thing you can do is learn to accept the fact that he is not going to be in your life because you will not allow him in. He doesn't deserve the attention you're trying to give him and he doesn't want it. He only cares about himself and he doesn't care who he hurts along the way.
That being said, you really need to stop contacting him, block him if you have to and move on with your life. Remember that there will come a day when you won't even think about him and when you do, you look up and say "Thank you Lord" because he is NOT in your life.
Time is your friend. Heal from this before getting back on the market and good luck to you.
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Agreed! Why should the poster assume it has anything to do with her at all?
Maybe he met someone else, maybe he’s very sick, maybe he doesn’t want a relationship. It’s more likely
him.
People can choose whether or not to take things personally, so just choose not to, and try to move on.
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