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Old 10-16-2008, 07:57 AM
 
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Do you flirt with people of the opposite sex or in Artys case, the same sex?

And are you good at it?

I would describe myself as a guy that does well with women as far as being able to get a date, but I am not good when it comes to flirting with women in public, especially when they initiate it.

No,I don't want advice in this thread on how to respond back I just want to hear your thoughts.

If you have good advice just DM me........
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:03 AM
 
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Im shy so I dont initiate flirting but if someone flirts with me I do it back. Im pretty friendly naturally so some people mistake my niceness for flirting Im witty too so I use that to cover my shyness if I need to be bold
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:05 AM
 
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I have a flirting issue.......I do it un-intentionally........it's just my personality but I don't consider it flirting.....more like, just being a ppl person
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:05 AM
 
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Ahh, good answer.

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Im shy so I dont initiate flirting but if someone flirts with me I do it back. Im pretty friendly naturally so some people mistake my niceness for flirting Im witty too so I use that to cover my shyness if I need to be bold
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:07 AM
 
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Yeah, I like that. I would say that's more of what I do. It's hard for a guy because it can be mistaken for flirting. I am a nice guy and friendly but I am careful not to over do it with women. Do you know what I mean?

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I have a flirting issue.......I do it un-intentionally........it's just my personality but I don't consider it flirting.....more like, just being a ppl person
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:11 AM
 
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Flirting is OK as long as it doesn't get out of hands.
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:13 AM
 
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Agreed and that's my concern. Since I am a conservative guy, I usually shut it down fast. Sometimes that's not so good but it's a safe exit.

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Flirting is OK as long as it doesn't get out of hands.
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:17 AM
 
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Yeah, I like that. I would say that's more of what I do. It's hard for a guy because it can be mistaken for flirting. I am a nice guy and friendly but I am careful not to over do it with women. Do you know what I mean?
Definitly.....I'm mis-read a lot by guys.....and even by girls sometimes lol.....then I feel stupid for having to correct them.......99 percent of the time I "flirt" it's un-intentional.....just me being myself.
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:19 AM
 
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I brought this question up because of my experience this moring in the coffe shop.

The experience was with 2 other people not me.

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Definitly.....I'm mis-read a lot by guys.....and even by girls sometimes lol.....then I feel stupid for having to correct them.......99 percent of the time I "flirt" it's un-intentional.....just me being myself.
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Old 10-16-2008, 08:20 AM
 
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I4M the flirting technique, which seems to me quite complicated.
Hence the good part is that I avoid awkward situations§
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