Almost 30 and still a virgin (girl, American, personalities, partner)
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OP, your mistake was in assuming that all the women in your college were the same. I don't know why guys do that; they see the party girls, and just give up on socializing, without making any effort to search out the quiet girls, the intellectual girls, the shy but cute and creative girls. You missed your chance. They were there, and probably would have loved to hang out with you, but you chose instead to roll over and die.
And you're still choosing that, it sounds like. I don't see you mentioning making any effort to get out and join hobby groups, community activities, co-ed sports leagues or yoga or tai chi/chi gong classes, the gym, etc. You're still in that same defeatist mode that you put yourself in, in college. You can either learn from your experience and make changes in your life, or you can stay where you are and whine, while spending a lot of money on escorts.
You don't know very much about women, do you? Did you go to an all-boys high school or something? Do you work in an all-male environment? You had no sisters?
And I'm not an expert on American girls but I strongly suspect a bigger LOL at they only like bad boys!
Women like to treated well regardless of nationality
I'm sure shy Asian women exist, but I've never met one in IRL. And I've dated a lot of Asian women.
As far as American women? I'm assuming caucasian women, OP? Well, don't believe everything you read on the internet/CD Data about them liking only bad boys; that's just cop out for not trying whenever someone makes that statement.
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