Sunday -- September 2, 2012
Posted 09-02-2012 at 12:32 AM by CSD610
Are you different than your siblings even though you grew up in the same household? I don't mean how you look but how you live your lives now that you are adults. Did you choose to go to college and they didn't or the other way around. Do you both have good jobs, children of your own, spouse, second spouse, no children? What made you make the choices you made? Do you know what made them make the choices they made? Do you "blame" your parents and how they raised you for your bad decisions? Do you take responsibility for you actions, reactions and choices? Do your siblings blame your parents for their actions, reactins and choices?
These are some of the questions I have had wandering through my mind recently as a result of spending way too much time on the forums reading about the woes of others as they see them. I don't know if the woes are true as stated because I did not state the woes and I have no idea who these people are who post their woes.
I find it curious that some of the issues posted sound so incredible that it is hard to believe the post is nothing more than trolls looking for attention. Then again, what do I know outside of reading all the advice given by other posters and all the excuses why NONE of the advice given will work for the original poster.
It seems odd to me that one can have the time and energy to write excuse after excuse but they do not have the time and energy to do whatever it takes to better their own situation. Again, I don't know for sure I am just questioning how true their words are looking outside in from a practical, logical not well informed opinion.
I say not well informed because the only words I have to go by are those presented by the original poster with follow up responses to others who post advice and suggestions. If the situation were as dire as stated I doubt that anyone could survive very long living in such a situation.
I am grateful for all the blessings I receive every moment of every day from God and I do my best to help others when I can and to live a good life. I am not perfect and do not try to be perfect I just try to live a good honest life and do what I can do to improve my situation when deemed necessary.
I'm not even sure why I am writing this at the moment all I know is that I felt compelled to try and get these words out of my brain, through my fingertips and put somewhere so maybe I can actually wander the timbers of slumber soon and get some actual rest and at the very least get more than 3 or 4 hours of unbroken sleep.
Many blessings to all who believe and if your situation is dire please seek the help of professionals who can help you to help yourself make your situation better. Please don't ask for help then make excuses as to why any and all advice and suggestions "Won't work for you", they will work IF you are truly in dire need and you actually do something to help yourself and quit counting on others to do it for you.
Rest well and I wish you all a safe Holiday Weekend...........
These are some of the questions I have had wandering through my mind recently as a result of spending way too much time on the forums reading about the woes of others as they see them. I don't know if the woes are true as stated because I did not state the woes and I have no idea who these people are who post their woes.
I find it curious that some of the issues posted sound so incredible that it is hard to believe the post is nothing more than trolls looking for attention. Then again, what do I know outside of reading all the advice given by other posters and all the excuses why NONE of the advice given will work for the original poster.
It seems odd to me that one can have the time and energy to write excuse after excuse but they do not have the time and energy to do whatever it takes to better their own situation. Again, I don't know for sure I am just questioning how true their words are looking outside in from a practical, logical not well informed opinion.
I say not well informed because the only words I have to go by are those presented by the original poster with follow up responses to others who post advice and suggestions. If the situation were as dire as stated I doubt that anyone could survive very long living in such a situation.
I am grateful for all the blessings I receive every moment of every day from God and I do my best to help others when I can and to live a good life. I am not perfect and do not try to be perfect I just try to live a good honest life and do what I can do to improve my situation when deemed necessary.
I'm not even sure why I am writing this at the moment all I know is that I felt compelled to try and get these words out of my brain, through my fingertips and put somewhere so maybe I can actually wander the timbers of slumber soon and get some actual rest and at the very least get more than 3 or 4 hours of unbroken sleep.
Many blessings to all who believe and if your situation is dire please seek the help of professionals who can help you to help yourself make your situation better. Please don't ask for help then make excuses as to why any and all advice and suggestions "Won't work for you", they will work IF you are truly in dire need and you actually do something to help yourself and quit counting on others to do it for you.
Rest well and I wish you all a safe Holiday Weekend...........
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