My children (24,21 and 20). Grew up with a step dad (my husband)for about 15 yrs now. Their birth dad was in and out of picture with no other kids. He was and still is a loser-owes 60,000. in child support,just thought I would throw that in! Does drugs, drinks no job... lives with his 72 yr old mother.I moved out of state and they all followed me. Then I moved again-out of state and the two youngest moved to. Now my oldest is best freinds with him in a different state (which is fine and probably...