this man is i am talking about have damaged so many women. one who is a very hurt and shocked: why do you men that have wives or a woman cheat? and why do you hurt the woman you cheat with? and think there is no harm done.

The numbers don't add up for having children in modern American society, raised to an upper middle class standard. Of my peers with children, almost all have both parents working. In one case, the mother does not work (to raise the children) because of the coldly-rational decision that two kids at top-end daycare is about $3,800/month. More than most mortgages in the Seattle area. Not much less than she'd net, if working as an IT admin, her previous vocation. Others, come to think of it, have...

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My heart goes to both the victims and their families. I can't even begin to feel what they must have gone thru their last few moments on this earth. Were they already gone whe the plane crashed into the ocean? What does a parent go through when they're sitting next to their child and know both of their lives is going to end soon? Or to think that your never going to see your loved one?
I've always been afraid of flying and of height. This news makes it a lot harder for me now. I'd rather...