Actually, muscle memory will save your life. Did you even know you have muscle memory?

One of my favorite examples is the seasoned driver, possibly middle age, been driving for decades. I'll assume you join me in that category.
You're driving down a street, cars parked on both sides. Automatically your brain is scanning for pedestrians who will magically appear between the cars. You're distracted by a party going on in the park to the left. You nod approvingly at the convertible...

I agree
It's best to be cordial first and try to ask them/talk it out...

For years, I have loved Starbucks coffees. There's never a month that goes by that I don't stop and grab me a café latte. Oh, they have other items, but that one gets my juices pumped every time.

And when I take off for my next road trip, Starbucks will be among the stops on the way. Coffee is the only reason I go there. For a while this last year, I actually went without. I had been protesting the ridiculous thoughts of Starbucks former CEO Howard Schultz....